A Friend With Benefits (FWB) sounds like an ideal relationship to most of all. And why not? Who would not want to engage in an intimate act with no strings attached? However, beware! It sounds doable in theory but might end into a total mess.
Here are some Do’s and Don’t’s one should adhere to if stepping into an FWB situation.
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The Do’s
#1. DO Prepare Yourself Emotionally
A friend with benefits is not a relationship but a friendship, which might not have a conventional happy ending. You need to be emotionally prepared and not expect them to provide you the stability that you are looking for in a relationship.
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#2. DO Talk Honestly
It is highly important, to be honest with your friend. They should know your likes and dislikes in the bedroom, because that’s what they are here for, to satisfy your needs. Talking about your fantasies or the way you like things is the key to sharing a good relationship.
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#3. DO Let Other People Float In
An FWB is not your better half and shunning others because of them is not the right decision. It is fine to go out with other people who you might like. A friend with benefits is just a temporary setup and it should not stop you from exploring other prospects.
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#4. Safety Should Be Priority
The safety while engaging in the physical activity should be your primary concern. Condoms are a must to avoid unwanted pregnancies and to protect you from contracting any STD’s. Being physically involved with someone who is not a monogamist calls for safety measures.
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The DON’T’S
#1. DON’T Ever Fall In Love
A friend with benefits is not the one to fall in love with. If ever you start developing feelings for your buddy, make sure to give yourself a hard slap or a smash your face with water to remind you of the reality and act upon it.
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#2. DON’T Introduce Them To Your Family Or Friends
Never introduce your FWB to your family or friends. You don’t want them to like your special friend because if they do, you will never be able to get out of this friendship. So,it's better to keep this liking inside the bedroom only.
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#3. DON’T Even Think About Texting
You are not supposed to text your special friend until it's a reminder of an evening. No communications except deciding the venue and timings should take place. Texts like “How was your day?”, “Did you Sleep well?” would lead to you developing an emotional attachment to the person you are involved with.
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#4. DON’T Cuddle
Cuddling is a form of warming up that is not so common in a FWB setup. Just be clear about the purpose of the arrangement. It is important for you to inform your partner about how would you like to keep it. Avoid cuddling and sleep overs. Keep it to the point.
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