Breakups are bad and messy, but the best part is that it’s finally over! After all, it was an ordeal. So what are you waiting for? Get out of that miserable feeling (after all it wouldn’t have lasted for a long time anyway). So, stop beating yourself up and get ready to do all the things below (hurry up! I have made a whole list).
So below is a fun filled list of things that will fix your mood and make you forget about your ex:
#1. Make your bed
You can start by changing your bed sheet and keeping cushions etc. in a different manner. Change the look and feel of the bed.
It will help you to forget about your ex like their side of the bed or the way you guys used to cuddle. I mean you don’t want to remember that lame talks anymore.
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#2. Cut them off from your life (even from social media)
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I know you’ll try to sneak in their life and keep a check on their latest friend but hold it. This is something that you should NOT do. Your gallery is enough to illegally (after the breakup) look at them. Also, you don’t want to see their posts related to you or anyone else (you know what I mean).
#3. It’s okay to be sad for a while
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It is not a crime to cry after breakups. It will relax you and will be in sync with your feelings. By crying, you will bring your emotions out and that will help you to cope up with it. So, there is no harm in it.
#4. Listen to ‘after break up party’ songs
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There are so many breakup party songs made just for you guys. So, go on and listen to some of those energetic beats and groove.
You might as well hit a disco and dance your heart out. Just be energetic and please avoid, ‘There is nothing left in the whole world’ kind of attitude. It’s so stupid!
#5. Have a blast
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Oh yes! You are finally single. Please celebrate it. Go out, dance, and sing, and party with your friends! But be careful with those mood swings (likely to happen after getting drunk).
#6. Spend some time alone
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This is important to think and bring yourself in alignment to what is currently happening in your life and what steps to take in the future, whether to be friends with your ex or to completely cut them off from your life etc.
You need this time (at least a month) to overcome your madness and obsession that you currently have on him/her.
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8. Try something different
Do something that you always wanted to do but couldn’t do it because of something or the other.
Although, before experimenting with your looks, don’t get caught up in the moment and do something weird, extreme and permanent.
Go for soft changes (like improved dressing style or perfume) that can be mended later.
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9. Time to show off!
Yes, it’s time to be a social butterfly and show off the new you or the previous one (whoever was hotter).
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10. Be a shameless flirt
As I mentioned above ladies and gentlemen, flirt all you can. After all, you are free now, so use it to the maximum advantage.
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11. Meet your friends
You will always have a friend who’ll say, ‘I always knew he/she isn’t right for you.’ So deal with them but isolate yourself from them. They are the only people with who we can be open.
I will not use the other cliché that it’s not the end but a new beginning and stuff like that. It’s heartbreaking, and that is entirely understandable.
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But, you will have to move on.
The fact is that you both aren’t together anymore. So cut the drama and face your reality.
Did I miss the thing that you did after your breakup? If yes, then please share your experience with us.
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A break-up can be really heartbreaking. But, one needs to understand that the world doesn't stop there. there are many things to do in one's life which can all be still achieved and enjoyed.
Therefore instead of becoming a weeny about it, try to open up to people forget your past and move on. I know that it sounds simple and all but, just imagine your next Mr. right can be right outside your door but you never opened it in the first place because you were busy eating the ice cream after your previous breakup. Even that's not right.
So, folks!there is nothing to worry about.After all, it's never too late to flirt(winking).
Getting over a relationship is a mental and a physical challenge. It creates a huge void in the person's life which seems impossible to fill. Time maybe the best healer of all wounds but a short vacation might be of help too. Giving yourself a little break from your regular life will create a great diversion.