Non-sober people (especially men) have this feeling that people who do not drink are difficult to deal with. They think that they might be compatibility with them, but it wouldn't be great. Again, the thing is that they form such judgments about the crowd without even meeting them.
The reality is far-fetched from this. People who do not drink are also fun and happening. Alcohol is not something that decides whether the person is interesting or boring.
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So, go on and date a girl who does not drink. You might find something different about them, which the usual crowd lacks.
Here are certain things that will help you to get along with them:
#1. Never Ask For Any Explanation
Asking the people who do not enjoy indulging in alcoholic drinks why they don’t drink at this point is a little too early. Don’t try to be her guide to enjoy the world with alcohol. It will go horribly wrong!
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#2. Let Them First Feel Comfortable
She will tell you her reason for not drinking when she feels like. Let her feel comfortable in your company first (this might take a while, varying from person to person).
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#3. Having Fun And Drinking Are Two Different Things!
Alcohol and fun do not go hand in hand. Thus, if you think that a girl is considered to be fun when they drink, you are highly mistaken. It's not that a girl who doesn’t drink does not have a good time. They can even be more fun than an average drinker.
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#4. Level Of Tolerance Varies
It depends on the particular person whether they can stand hanging out with friends who enjoy drinking or others who stay sober. It will be appreciated if you do not form any opinions about her.
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#5. Make Sure You Have Something To Offer Them
If you plan to invite her over to your house, it's best to ensure that you have non-alcoholic drinks for her to make her feel comfortable. It does not imply that you offer milk, water, and beer. Keep a range of choices for the lady!
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#6. They Might Not Want To Get Physically Involved When You Are Drunk
Now, that's normal. If the girl does not indulge in alcoholic drinks, the chances are that she will not be interested in getting cozy with you when you are drunk. Thus, it's better not to push her for intimacy and wait till you are sober.
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#7. They Will Connect With You On A Greater Level
Most people worry about the relationship they may share with their partner who doesn't drink alcoholic beverages. However, that should not be a matter of concern. Instead, the emotional bonding the two of you will share will be more intimate and deep.
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#8. You Can Be Sober With Them
It doesn’t mean that you have to leave alcohol. But, you can avoid it when you are with her. Although, that depends totally on your choice!
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#9. Be Creative!
When drinking is not an absolute compulsion, it opens the door for you to think out of the box. Thus, compelling you to make plans other than the usual such as visiting the parks, museums, or going to the mall and more. Move beyond parties and experience new things to create more memories!
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#10. Connect With Each Other
Talk to each other about things in a state of being sober. That will allow you to share your thoughts and opinions about various things and help in establishing a greater bond between the two of you. Thus, it's good to abandon alcohol for a healthy conversation now and then!
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#11. If You Love Them, Be Careful When To Say It
Please be sober while telling her that you love her. Otherwise, they will think that you don’t mean it and things will become messy.
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#12. You Will Not Have To Leave Alcohol
Just because she does not like drinking alcohol, it doesn’t mean that you will have to leave drinking. It is your individual choice and they will not push you for it.
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#13. Act Mature
Don’t be like ‘You don’t drink!?! Then what do you do?’ Well, they'll beat the alcohol out of you. That’s what they do. Respect the other person's choice and not pester her by throwing your judgments at her.
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