Shakespeare, upon coining the term "Love Is Blind" might not have thought how sensationalized it would become in the coming times. Love is a feeling that arises when two people come into the acceptance of being truly soul-like. You may come across people who might not seem to you as a perfect match. Appearance could be one reason. But, once you dig into their stories is when you embrace how accurate Shakespeare could have been in the 16th century!
Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?
Love is as ancient as the humankind. It is named as a selfless act and a selfish one too. Love is a painful experience yet a memorable one too. Love is life, and it is the idol, is intangible and gets you to an extraordinary state of mind. It reminds you of the beauty around, and it makes you humble and also stronger. But is Love blind?
Ask the man who has a family with an acid attack survivor! Ask the couple committed towards a long distance relationship and hadn't even met once. Ask the woman whose pregnancy report is found to be positive. In fact, ask yourself how infinite the love for your God is? You'll observe how insignificant the parameters of shape, color, size, and height become when all that matters is one person who you love.
So, to some extent, love is blind. It makes you want to fill in the darkness and void. No matter how incomplete the match would appear, it makes you want to outshine. Love has no eyes, and it remains unchanged when it's pure and selfless. But is there no logical side to the same? Is it so heavenly that darker clouds are nowhere to be seen? Yes, there are hardships, blinding love is a never ending struggle, and this is how it weakens you!
#1. The feelings and thoughts towards the person are uncontrollable. You are unable to draw a line. And all the indifferences, no matter how bothersome they would be, are overlooked each time.
#2. Instantly making decisions about the one you love, lacks a clear vision. It's only after a prolonged period of togetherness that you recognize the realistic picture. A distorted evaluation can also be a reason for not being able to focus on the wrongs!
#3. The institution of love excellently disrupts your common sense. And, as sentiments get more passionate, there's a fear of losing each other that takes over your mind. Eyes aren't involved, just the emotions that perceive everything as right.
#5. Upon getting close to a person, the ability to access their personality and character starts to diminish. Even if it's not blinding, blurred vision can still be the case.
#6. Until the initial infatuation remains, the image of your ideal partner stays on the vision board. Even if just a single parameter is met, you glorify and stick to that as if being superglued to the thought.
#7. Love promotes transparency along with personal space. Upon finding the right one, you even let your guards down! This, sooner or later, creates an unusual and uncomfortable zone where being too nice or being blindly in love starts to let the things be taken for granted. But in the first place, all beauty and no futuristic approach make you want to believe in deluding yourself.
#8. The inability to see something that's right in front of you occurs not due to a medical condition. Your beliefs of this being a fairy tale are much stronger than the mind that intellectually wants to deal with the situation.
#9. The entire practice of love makes you feel worthless when the love you behold isn't reciprocated. Your fantasies start to break, and until the high-spirited love doesn't cool, you are unable to notice what went wrong.
Accept the fact that certain things might never go back to how they were. Even though you cannot change how your past was, proceeding with maximum clarity in future can be achieved. Let us know what you feel about the same through the comment section below. We would love to hear from you!
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Yes cuz whats truley love, in love? Meanings are a little black in and white in life.
To a certain extent, love gets blind. One just starts concealing even the negatives of a relationship. Sometimes it's necessary but not always. Hence it's all a 50-50 situation.