How to Know if your Spouse is Cheating on You?

People cheat. Not that the line leaves an optimistic imagery in your mind, but this is the reality we have to accept. Now, these people can be anyone, from your colleagues to friends to even your spouse.

Yes! We all know that the concept of infidelity is not new. No matter how wonderful your relationship feels in the beginning, you can never be completely sure that your spouse is never going to cheat on you. So say, the unimaginable happens, say your spouse is actually cheating on you. Have you ever thought of how you will know about it?

Of course, people who cheat don’t tell you that they are. You have to understand if things are right. Many hidden signs signal towards the fact that your spouse could be cheating on you. However, remember that 'could be' is the catch phrase here. Take a look:

#1. Cellphone Addiction and Frequent Password Changes

Okay, so let’s begin with something that is the most obvious. Remember that every healthy relationship is extremely open. If your spouse picks their phone up and immediately walks to some other room, be assured that something is fishy. While they might be planning a surprise party for you, chances are they could also be cheating on you. Consider the same if they have too many passwords which you don’t know.

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#2. Unusual Intimacy

You have spent time with your spouse; a lot of it. You know exactly how he reacts to intimate moments. When your spouse is cheating on you, two things can happen: their sexual urge could drastically increase or decrease. It might decrease because they’re having enough intimate encounters with someone else. If it increases unprecedentedly, it might be out of guilt. Make sure you take a look at these minute signs.

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#3. Abrupt Expertise

Did you know that the earth is 70% water and still less than 1% of it is drinkable? If you see a new found interest of your spouse in fields they never cared of before, chances are they are hanging out with someone else, a lot. It could be that they are absorbing their lover’s interests.

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#4. Affairs are Normal for Them

You told your spouse of your friend whose husband has been cheating on her and they got defensive? Instead of showing their concern or dismay, they utter things like, “he was perhaps not happy in his relationship.” Make sure you take enough hints from that that if your relationship hits deep waters, your spouse will most likely cheat on you.

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#5. Changed Rituals

We all have a fixed routine we do when we come back home from the office and so does your spouse. However, if you see that they have not been doing all those things they used to; it is time for you to get alarmed, especially, if they rush straight to the bathroom after coming home.

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#6. Social Media Singularity

Take a look at your spouse’s social media profiles. Do they give the vibe of someone who is single? For instance, if your spouse has a lot of single pictures, it hints towards the fact that they don’t want to tell the world that they’re committed. But why would they do that? Well, most likely because they’re being unfaithful to you.

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#7. Increase in Gifts

Just like being unfaithful might increase your spouse’s sexual urge, they are more likely to get you gifts (a lot of it). It can be attributed to the fact that they might be going through a guilt trip.

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So, there you have it. Your spouse might be absolutely fantastic and will likely never cheat on you. However, being a little vigilant is never going to hurt you. Also, make sure that you can read between the lines and look for these hidden signs.

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