How Should Parents Address Internet Pornography?

In this world where everything is available at one click of users, kids often become used to bad things available online as well. Pornography is a widespread industry and parents cannot put a total control on their kids when it comes to them watching it. The kids become exposed to watching porn at an average age of 9 years. But this is one of the biggest concerns of parents that they cannot seem to put a complete stop on their kids from watching these videos online. It is possible to reduce the number of times they visit these sites, but you cannot put a total ban on it. With the internet making life easier on a daily basis it has also made the bad content available easily for the young ones. Should the parents have a discussion with their children about this or should they just accept this activity as part of growing up?
If you are trying to make your kids stay away from the adult content, you should take a few measures to ensure their distance from it. You should make sure that all the devices in your home should have an internet filter that blocks these websites and prevents your kids from indulging in porn altogether. This will avoid all the spam emails with a useful title but harmful content from taking them to the porn sites as it is already blocked. You have to be really active if you really want to keep a check on the pornography activity. You should monitor the sites that are often visited by the kids on their personal cell phones as well as other devices in the home. Also, go through the content they watch on TV or while playing video games as it might contain some 18 plus content as well.
Another important step that needs to be taken is talking to your kids about pornography.
If a child does not really understand the effects of it, they might still come up with other ways of indulging in these activities. They might go over to a friend's place who has access to such stuff and still indulge in it. You do not have control over the devices in the house of someone else. So it is important to counsel your children properly about this. They should understand the negative effects of watching porn in order to have a control over it. Do not just limit your conversation to telling them that it is bad and they should avoid it. Instead, you should have some valid reason to support your statement as well. Tell your kids to not hide if they come across some nude pictured accidentally while surfing the net. Ask them to inform you in these situations so that you can deal with it. Guide them to never open spam emails or any emails sent by someone they do not know as it might contain harmful content. Also, contact the school authorities and discuss having safety measures to protect the kids from exposure to pornographic content.
You should not freak out when you find out that you are watching porn on a regular basis. Try to accept that this is part of growing up. Try not to overreact. Do not tell your kids that they have done something terribly wrong as they might become scared their sexuality like a normal kid. Just try to explain them there are healthy ways of exploring these ideas and pornography is not the right one. Then leave them be for some time so that they can judge the seriousness of the matter.

Internet Pornography is a very bold and intense subject. Parents have to deal with it in the twenty first century. Parents have to deal with this potent topic very gingerly and cautiously. Children must be told about sex in an open manner. There must be an open channel of communication between parents and their children so that there is nothing hidden from the kids. Children have access to Internet pornography these days and things and information are just a click away. From the very beginning, parents should try to talk to their children about sex. It is better if they get information from their home itself. The reluctance of parents result in the gaining of wrong knowledge by their children.  As a parent, give them the ins and outs of porn  industry and its culture. Once they know everything, they can question you without any inhibitions and hesitance. They will be able to express them openly and frankly. Parents should see pornography in a neutral manner. They should not be totally against it as it will arouse the curiosity among children and they will be eager to get access to it. Therefore, teach your children and leave it on them as to what they want to do.

You cannot monitor each and everything your child does. Just be glad they are only watching porn and not experimenting stuff in your bedroom. 

I had this very discourse on a Facebook post that I shared where a previous classmate of mine, a mother of an adolescent kid, was enraged or can say furious that I had mentioned that I would not like to boycott pornography. Her contention was that youthful children would see it and get influenced by it. Another companion participated in the discourse and he was with me : we would prefer not to ban pornography however we don't need children to be presented to it. On the off chance that you are stressed over your child watching porn on the web, screen their web use and be more dynamic in controlling what your child sees online.

I sincerely trust that on the off chance that you have youthful children at home and you anticipate giving them a portable workstation/desktop with Internet get to, don't give them the association in their room. Keep their own portable PC or tab with them yet limit their internet utilization to a system kept in the living room or dinning table or whatever, in a plan view of whatever remains of the family. Be close them when they need to go on the web. Put parental locks or controls or whatever expected to confine certain sites.

Take a look by the day's end, he or she will see something that you don't need them to see. Either coincidentally or they may be with a companion who has unrestricted access to stuff on the web or something else. Educate your children, let them know why you don't want them to watch this stuff. Disclose to them that there are honest to goodness worries that could influence their reasoning. Accomplish something helpful and treat them like you regard their conclusion as well yet watch over them.

And at last what you will discover, your kids will not gonna lie to you on any topic. That's because of sharing your reasons and truth behind the aspect. Also, may be this discussion brought a helpful guidance to other parents.