Is gay if you get turned on by girls kissing? (Girl P.O.V.)

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We are glad that you shared your query with us. We will try our best to solve it for you. However, it is a question always arises in front of everyone that is a girl who gets turned on by a girl kissing is lesbian or not? The trend started when Madonna passionately kissed Britney Spears on global television at the MTV Video Music Awards in 2003. Women have been going gaga over that thing and been losing their sexuality with women only. This however, does not mean that a woman is gay if she gets turned on by a girl kissing her.  

#1. The people who have these feelings are neither gay or bisexuals; they are called Flexisexuals. These women love flirting and kissing women but enjoy physical intimacy with men only. This kind of gesture does not turn them into gay. The trend of growing visibility with the same sex has made it very common and normal for people to do it. People have become more open about being close to the same sex even if they are completely straight and this has grown in women mostly as it explores different sides of friendship for women. 

 

Pop culture embraces and celebrates this side of sexuality among women and has a song sung by Katy Perry named as “I Kissed a Girl (and I Liked it)” and a song called “made girls be more free to do whatever they want” by Alisha Garrison.

#2. Flexisexual are also called Heteroflexible, queer or Pansexual who definitely do not want to close any doors and keep every opportunity open. It is about being comfortable with our women as an individual and not as the sexuality of two women. Also, as a surprise, there is also a website or dating site which is called Flexisexual where all women can find other women in order to explore the extents of their sexuality. This is a dating site for open-minded and sexy women who can hook up or chat with each other, and they have a lot to explore. This is very common that like-minded people are connected to each other. Therefore, if a woman appreciates another woman vocally or physically, that does not come down to their sexuality every time. It can be a normal act of pleasure and appreciation as well.  


#3. Most of the women these days are open-minded and are very fine to explore their sexuality at every end. The late teens and adult women are accepting this openness in the sexuality as a way of life, and they are absolutely abandoning the restrictions of gender to come in between their lifestyle and individuality. The labels in the relationship are the least concerned fact these days in between two people. This is just a way of self-discovering and not an act of turning the sexuality into being a gay. 


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No

Just watching two women kissing each other will not make a woman lesbian. When two people share intimacy and if you see them then you can feel the intimacy as well. It Is not necessary that the woman gets turned on because both the people sharing a moment are women. Whenever we see something erotic we can imagine ourselves in their place. The imagination could include a man with a woman or a man with a man. It does not matter who kisses whom. Just the sight may give pleasure to someone who has been missing their beloved or someone who is looking for someone to share these moments with.
And even if it pleases a woman to see two women exchanging a kiss then there is no harm. If the woman is lesbian then she may enjoy watching the scenario. There are no studies to prove that watching women watch lesbians kiss can make a person gay.


May be

I do not believe that it makes a girl gay or lesbian if she is turned on my watching two girls make out. If that is the case, then I suppose all girls are lesbians since I read somewhere that a study has indicated that even the so-called ‘straight’ women are aroused by other women. In the same study, while straight men and lesbian, women who preferred having sex with other women, showed distinct sexual responses towards their favorite sex, women who preferred to have sex with men, were aroused when they were shown sexual clips of men as well as when they were shown erotic clips featuring women.
Thus, we can say that you may still be straight even when you are turned on while watching other girls kiss. What makes you a bisexual or lesbian is the fact whether you wish to have sex with other women. Merely being turned on means nothing. You might get excited watching other women kiss but still may want to go home with a guy. This is what I think. I guess some will agree with me and hope that you will find this information useful.

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