Is it annoying when couples show love in public?

Couples, when displaying their feelings openly in public, is considered as a matter of embarrassment for several people. They claim that it is unusual to show public behavior involving love or vulgar expressions. But one should be pretty much clear before raising any objections. That every couple never intends to show any kind of vulgar activities openly, rather they just express their feelings towards each other. Therefore, it should never be an annoying thing when couples display or show their love in public places.

Displaying vulgar traits are completely a different topic to be concerned about. Vulgar has a meaning that is considered obscene. Now couples who display obscene behavior in open public areas are of course to be blamed for the annoying moments. We all feel shame when we see people indulged in sexual or near-sexual actions that too openly. Therefore, vulgarism is something that makes all of us annoyed in public. Not only in public places but even in places which are least visited by the public catches our attention when couples display vulgarity. Love has a completely different meaning. It has nothing to do with vulgarity.

The couple who embrace each other or just hold each other's hand, are the ones who display the actual meaning of love. They feel for each other which is why they express their deep gratitude by holding or embracing each other. I have seen several couples who hold each other and even hug each other and that never seemed to be annoying for me. Nor people who were around them even felt anything strange. But as soon as couples get a bit intimate with themselves all the crowd goes berserk. They simply can’t tolerate vulgarity which is why they feel annoyed by seeing them. Nevertheless, there are people who even get annoyed with the holding of hands in public. But these are exceptional cases. Mostly the public gets annoyed with vulgarity.

Even if some couples do get to indulge themselves in vulgarity, it is a matter of personal behavior. We as a society have nothing to do with it and no one has given us any right to comment on such things. There is no law that states people can or cannot display vulgarity in public. But because the crowd gets annoyed and pissed off, it has become an assumed law. One should note that displaying public affection is not a matter of shame and there is no punishment for it. Only because of the typical mindset of the society, people fear to get intimate or to display their love to each other.

Nowadays even motherly or fatherly love is often judged by the public. In an instance, I was amazed to see that a mother was stored continuously by strangers, only because she kissed her son before leaving at a bus stop. Although the boy was in his twenties, and that was the matter of the public getting annoyed but no one has any right to stare or give a glance on these gestures. If the boy had been a child, there would have fewer objections. But since the boy was quite grown up, people started to feel annoyed on seeing the mother kissing him on the cheeks.

These statements or gesture of public varies from place to place. People in Metros, which are highly populated are least involved in these actions. Still, there are localities where people preach this kind of thoughts. It all depends on how a person perceives his/her surroundings and how he/she sees people around his/her environment. Public affection is at times welcomed by many people. When people display love openly some people respond back with a smile rather than getting annoyed. These traits vary with individuals and greatly depends on the personality of the individuals. If he/she is narrow-minded, no doubt there will be an annoyance in seeing a brother and sister hugging each other. On the other hand, some people even after seeing a couple indulge in vulgar activities never intend to get annoyed. That is because of their clean mentality.

We make the society as well as its laws. Several assumed laws are all made by us. I think its time that we should all make those laws which are pretty simple and are not biased. Displaying love is an emotion and it should never be termed as an indiscriminate behavior. The sooner we will realize this, the less we will get annoyed in seeing couples displaying love.