What’s your WHY?

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Thank you for posting the query here. We laid our hands on something very informative and useful for you. What is your why is the most important and most tricky question. They whys of people are tricky and confusing. One should know one’s whys in life to see through one’s purpose in life because there is absolutely nothing in life without a why. You can know your why by looking into your life a little deeper as it will surely provide you with the correct reason Some of the things which let you know your why are :
#1. Your Strengths
Everyone has certain positive traits and strengths. No one is perfect though. Your strengths are your treasure trove that sets you apart from others in life. You need to know your strengths so that you can decide as to what is your life’s purpose. Our purpose should be based on our strengths as it helps us to perform well in life. You can work out your strengths and set your goals in life keeping in mind your inner strengths and qualities. Do things that highlight your strengths and hone your skills even more.
#2. What Makes You Live Peacefully?
Any task which makes your life satisfying and peaceful is something we should all look forward to. It gives us a sense of contentment because we can know what gives us happiness. A thing which makes us feel alive and adds to our joy is a perfect task. To know your whys you should ponder over the fact that if the work you are doing actually gives you joy or not. Knowing our why is not really difficult, it is just the basic confusions and dilemmas that hinder our chain of thoughts.

#3. Will It Have Meaning After Ten Years?

Just ask yourself if your purpose in life or any aim has any significance. Today’s why can affect your future to a great extent. So plan carefully and  do not make any decision in haste. You why should be the reflection of your own personality. It has got nothing to do with your past as bygone days are of no use. Let sleeping dogs lie and think of your why considering the present and your future.
#4. Money Or Passion
Ask yourself the importance of money and passion in your life. You can introspect and after taking things into consideration concerning the monetary factors and your passion, you can know your why. Whys define us as they show us who we really are and what we really want in life. Do not sacrifice your passion in greed for money. The money matters but ultimately it is your interest and happiness that counts. Therefore, ponder on your passion so that you get to know if it will add value to your life or not.
To know your why is not difficult. It is just a way of life, we all have to do it. Everyone goes through the phase of choosing one’s whys in life.

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We, humans, are complex beings and we need to have something to pursue or we will go mad. Unlike animals, our only objective is not survival on earth. We need to have a purpose in our life so that everything we do is directed with the aim of achieving it. We need to have an answer to the why we are walking in a particular direction in our life. Without the answer, we will be distracted by useless things around and will start doing things that put our life in danger itself like alcohol abuse. Once you have a reason behind your actions, you will be motivated to achieve that goal. You will have something to wake you up early every morning and work towards achieving it. You will not bring a change in your life if you do not have anything to work towards. You will simply wake up late and lie around lazily and spend the whole day doing nothing. You will not have your inner voice shouting to get up and achieve your goals.
So, you need to find your purpose and reason for an early morning hard work. Your life will have so much more meaning when you know what you are going to achieve the next day. German philosopher Frederick Nietzsche once stated, ‘He who has a why can endure any how.’ Apprehending your why is an essential first move in deciding out how to accomplish the goals that inspire you and design a life you enjoy living (versus merely surviving!). Admittedly, only when you recognize your ‘why’ will you find the strength to take the dangers needed to get forward, stay motivated when the chips are falling, and lead your life into a completely new, more challenging, and more fulfilling trajectory. You will become tired of all the hard work if you do not have any purpose behind it. But with a certain aim in mind, you can definitely walk that extra mile and do your best every next day.
When life is not so fair to you and you lose your job even though you did your best there, what is it that still keeps you positive? You know that you do not have a single penny to survive and you have no means of earning now but you still do not give up. That is because you believe that something good is coming along the way. You do not need the approval of others to keep you going. Your dreams keep you walking.

Whys  and hows are the root of all evils according to some people. My opinions are not in cahoots with
theirs by a long shot. My why from life is why do cheaters get all the success. I don’t mean to say that
cheaters always end up being successful. My complaint is why do I have to suffer every time. I am a very
hard-working person but I don’t get my due and what I deserve. I know I am much more deserving and
capable than the people I call buggers and cheaters. They gnaw my vital no end and I cannot stand the
sight of cheaters who not only masquerade but flaunt as well. This attitude of the cheaters vexes me a
great deal. Well, some people say you have to embrace whatever is offered to you on the plate. I have
accepted every goddamn thing in my life and I have no complaints. They say, this how the cookie
crumbles. No. And why? How come the cookie ends up in the mouth of cheaters at all times, then? I
don’t understand the enigma behind it. I go in a state of frenzy at times. I become disgruntled, I have lost
all hopes in my life now because the more I hope the more my hopes get dashed to smithereens. 

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