If you are single and looking out for that girl of your dreams, you should be aware of a few things before you go out on a date and your dreams come crashing by. When you date a girl, we are sure you will not want her to a gold digger.
If you are one of the wealthy men of the city and often move to places in luxury witnessing a lot number of attractive single ladies, chances are you might come across one or two gold diggers who would be least interested in who you are and more interested in what is inside your wallet. Do not mistake that for her being just curious about who you are as no sane person would ask about how much you earn or what you do in the very first sentences. So, we are here to save you from the tragic date. Take a look at all the things you should keep in mind to avoid a gold digger -
It is not necessary that every pretty girl you meet has an eye on your stacks of cash. But generally, gold diggers use their attractiveness as a weapon to get you to like them. They usually will be dressed in a flamboyant designer attractive dress with accompanied accessories which would catch anyone's eye easily. Once they know that you are someone with a heavy wallet, they will come to your table and make flirtatious advances and will be mostly easy to get.
#2. Likes Expensive Things
If you see her wearing all the top-notch brands and she either does not have a job or is at a job which does not pay that much, that is your hint there to know that she is getting her bills paid by others. Most certainly then not, it will be the people who she dated. She cannot afford that bag of Michael Kors, but she has even more expensive ones at home. You can be sure she is a gold digger there!
#3. Keeps Asking Your Finances
On the very first date itself, she will seem very interested in what is your profession and how much money you make out of it to judge whether you are beneficial for her or not. She will also ask about your apartment and your family fortunes to know what all you own or will own. It may seem like she is a just a nice person who is interested in knowing about you, but you should be warned as this is a surefire sign that you should not have a second date with her or even think about spending your another moment with such a person.
#4. Demand Gifts
If you are dating a girl, you might take flowers for her once in a while. But, if you are dating a gold digger, just flowers are not suffice to win her heart and make her feel happy. She will need you to buy expensive things for her like jewelry if you want to buy a present for her. There might even be chances when she pretends to be angry with you and will not respond unless you buy her something she wants. Moreover, she might just start to demand gifts without any rhyme or reason from you. If this happens, you can be sure that all she cares about is your money and is surely a gold digger.
#1. "What's Your Job ?"
Like we already mentioned if the lady happens to mention too much about what you do and nothing to do with who you are as a person, then it is a definite sign of her being interested in your money and not you as a person.
#2. "Me Too !"
If you are a wealthy person and discussing your lifestyle, more often she will agree with liking expensive things and living a luxury lifestyle just like you. Also if she is trying to trap you into liking her, she will pretend to have similar interests that will make you think she is the one for you. She will say "me too" for instance if you say you like to watch comedy movies. But in reality, she does not and is only getting you to go out with her and spend money on her.
#3. "Gucci, Prada, Rolex, Cartier....................."
You are going to hear these names quite frequently from the mouth of someone who loves to maintain a high profile life or love material things, especially with high price tags. And if that someone does not have a well-paying job to sustain that lifestyle, that person is going to look for a person who does that for them. If your date resembles this quality, it is a bad sign for you and damn, man she is certainly a gold digger.
#1. Make Them Pay
Don't mind the pun here! If you know that the girl you are dating is a gold digger, you should get back to them for what they are or in other words make them pay for their mistakes. Also, make them pay the bill once in a while to remind them that you are not just an ATM for their luxury wishes. Make any excuse for not paying or pretend to forget your wallet and see how she reacts. She will either walk out and never call back or she will pay it herself. It is either way, a win-win situation for you.
#2. Take Them To Budget Places
The best thing that you can do to get back at them is to stop giving them the pleasure of driving her wishes out of you. You can say that you like going to that low budget restaurant and take her along with you. She is either going to assume that you are not such an extravagant and spendthrift or she will leave you in the midway.
#3. Demand Gifts Too
Another way that you can get back at your gold digger date is to make her realize what she has been doing to you lately. If she demands to be showered with lots of gifts without any reason, then try copying her and do the same. Demand gifts from her to making any silly excuse that you can think of and I am sure either she will stop asking for gifts in future, or she is going to stop contacting you after that.
#4. Convince Her That You Are Insolvent
If the only reason she has been going out with you is your superfluous bank balance, you only need to convince her that you are in fact bankrupt. If she still stays, you will know that she is for real and if not, you will not regret having pulled off the lie and gotten rid of the gold digger.
#1. Be At The Right Place
If you are a really affluent person and you are always worried about how to find your true love, then you must introspect on finding your true love. If you usually go to high-end bars, hotels, and spas, you will be able to fetch more such gold diggers. But if you happen to meet a girl at a bookstore or in your neighborhood, there is a good chance that she is genuinely interested in you.
#2. Do Not Talk Money
If it is not the wrong places that we just mentioned, then maybe it is your way of presenting yourself that is drawing the attention of gold diggers. If you are talking about buying a very expensive car say next week, then people are sure to count you in their "Prey List." You should talk less about your money and talk more about your hobbies when in public to draw the attention of like-minded people. Initiate conversations about the sports or movies you like, and you will be getting a girl who shares similar interests as you. So change your ways to get the right girl and not a gold digger.
Being a wealthy man, you will always have unwanted attention and from all the wrong people. It becomes very difficult at times to judge who your real friend is.
We hope that this article is able to help you with some valuable ways to stay away from those selfish money-minded girls and find your true love out there. We hope you like the article! Let us know in the Comments Section below!
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It’s well written.
Points do make sense.
Good work.