You cannot make everyone happy. Some people will dislike you for no apparent reason. Even though they may not show it directly to you, there are signs that someone dislikes you discreetly. You have to be observant and pick up on the significant signs that might give you an elusive idea.
Identifying the signs that someone dislikes you and eliminating them from your life is the right thing to do. People have unnecessary hate within themselves due to their own insecurities, frustrations, and issues. It is best that you overcome negativity in all forms and matter from your life and move forward.
Here are the early signs that someone dislikes you discreetly:
#1. You Are Always The One Who Is Left Out
Have you noticed that whenever your friends plan out a party or plan a trip they “forget to mention” it to you? Do you constantly feel left out of discussions? This is a sign that maybe you are not liked by someone. Chances are somebody dislikes you and is not saying anything about it, but their actions speak otherwise.
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#2. No Eye Contact While Talking To You
This is a big sign that someone dislikes you. They never make an eye contact with you while talking. This tells that someone dislikes you discreetly. If they are interested in talking to you, they will face you and make an eye contact with you.
#3. Fake Smiles
A fake smile every time you see them is a sign that they discreetly dislike you. It is very easy to differentiate between a fake and a genuine smile. If someone gives you fake smiles every time, it is time to stay away from them because they discreetly dislike you.
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#4. Watch For Differences
People behave differently depending on how they feel about the person. Often there may be very subtle cues which can tell you that they are behaving differently with you. Something that might suggest that they are lying or trying to mislead you. Look out for any sign when they are trying to hide an emotion, as people often get emotional when they lie and try to conceal it. Look at the way they react to a thing when you say it as compared to, when some other person utters the same thing. They might act differently. This is a sign that you are discreetly disliked.
#5. They Convince Others That You Are A Bad Person
The biggest problem with people who dislike you secretly is they choose to convey their feelings by their body language or other actions instead of telling it to your face. They will try to defame you and convince others too. If someone is blaming you for things that are not under your control, that usually means they are trying to put a negative focus on you.
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#6. They Hate To Listen To You
It is a proven psychological fact that people who don’t like you much will not be comfortable around you. They will also tend to avoid being engaged in any sort of communication with you. If you are telling this person about your weekend plans, and he/she is just pretending to listen to you or maybe you are repeating things that you just said in a way to lend them an ear, chances are that your conversation is going for a toss. Then, it’s a clear sign that he/she just doesn’t care about you and is least interested to know anything good and exciting about your life.
#7. Attitude Just For You
Somebody can be having a bad day and thus, throwing tantrums at you for a while is fine. But if it is a repetitive thing and you are always at the receiving end, then it is a problem. There is something wrong with your friendship. A bad attitude can adversely affect your mood too and spoil your day. You don’t have to be around all that negativity because it is infectious.
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#8. Your Achievements Are Not Acknowledged
It is the most obvious way by which your secret hater projects negativity. When you achieve something small or big and people usher you with compliments and praises, this person will be as cold to you as possible. Or in case if they do compliment, it will be accompanied with such an uncomfortable attitude, it could imply how they really feel about you.
Do you see these signs and have been ignoring them? Talk to the people who are treating you like this. If you have any more signs that indicate that somebody dislikes you discreetly, then let us know in the comments below.
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