Do Arranged Marriages In India Really Work?

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Do Arranged Marriages In India Really Work?

Since time immemorial, the ongoing debate as to which one sustains for long and how successful is love marriage as compared to the arrange marriage is doing rounds as every family dinner table. Well, Indian kids have been accustomed to both the kinds long before they could even fall in love and indulge in romance. 

Here are some of the latent benefits of arranged marriage you never noticed. Check it out:

#1. No Family Fight

The families from both the parties; bride and groom, will be friendly and shall maintain congenial relations from the very beginning. You would not have to make efforts to bring them together!

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#2. Parents will ask you to go on Date!

It is unimaginable but true in the case of arranged marriages. Your parents unlike their arranged marriage, will compel you to go out for dates and choose your partner. 

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#3. No Expectations

This comes quite naturally because when you don’t know the person in detail, you do not have much to look forward to from him/her.

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#4. If anything goes wrong, blame your parents!

You can seriously do this, after all, if anything goes bad in the love marriages who do the parents blame. Huh?

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#5. Love of in-laws by default

You don’t have to be worried whether your in-laws will like you or not. They won’t bitch about you ever.

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#6. Love is all you got to do!

You don’t have any other duties or responsibilities apart from working on your relationship with the groom.

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#7. You can bathe in common topics

As the setup has been done by the mutual understanding of the parents of both bride and groom, you have so much in common to talk about.

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#8. Feel butterflies in your stomach

Somewhere in our heart, we all somewhere wish to ignite that old high-school feeling. You know what we mean, don’t you!

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#9. Experience thrill

You will spend the initial years of your marriage in excitement, fun, and desire to know each other. So fasten your seat belts for a lot of chitter-chatter.

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#10. Lifelong commitment

Marriage is a special bond that brings together two souls with a promise to bask in the glory of ups and downs. It's a lifelong commitment that binds them in a pious relationship.

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#11. Divorce…what’s that?

The ultimate reason to go for arranged marriage is that the divorce rate is just 1.1%, leaving no ground for the new generation to debate upon.

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#12. Same status, no issues

The arrangement is setup by the parents, and that means that people of the same status come together. Hence, there is no reason to feel inferior or superior.

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#13. Compatibility and love, you got it all

Relationship experts claim that in arranged marriages (done after a lot of thought process), compatibility and love increase with time. As arranged marriages are planned with a long-term perspective.

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Do you have any thoughts about arranged marriages to share with us? Please leave a comment below. We will appreciate it.

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