It seems easy for women to seduce a guy that she likes. Probably she can put on her sexiest outfit, use her favorite perfume, give a dazzling smile and that’s it, no? But what if they both are married? The monotonous daily routine becomes the enemy of the romantic life. If your marriage is not nurtured properly, it can fall apart anytime. But then, how can you seduce your husband to get the romance back to your life?
The question is certainly the most important thing in a married couple's life. After you get married, both the partners get so busy in their work lives that they forget to take out time for each other. However, if your husband is too busy that he does not take out time for you, save these tricks to seduce him very often.
#1. The Magic Of Touch
Yes, a simple gesture can actually make a huge difference. Men can go literally crazy when you gently show them the magic of touch. By simply holding his hands or placing your hands on his shoulders and thighs can stimulate intense emotions in men. Make a sultry eye contact with him and purposely come across him at the house so that he has some hints to catch. A touch full of warmth can leave him astonished and thrilled. You need to use your soothing touch to entice him.
#2. Kiss Him Suddenly And Surprise Him
Alright, Now who would not be turned on by that? Don’t you think? You can kiss him suddenly and surprise him with a kiss probably. These sudden surprises can spark up the marriage in just one move. You won’t have to do a lot. All you need to do is kiss him while he’s talking or doing some office work. Once you will kiss him, you will see an amazing smile on his face which is worth a million dollars. A surprise kiss has the potential to wake up the deep romance which never comes out. Kiss him passionately and have a hold of his usher desires. Later on, your wish will be his command.
#3. Send Him Love Messages Daily
Post marriage, most of the people stop texting each other as they are aware that they are going to see each other daily. Therefore, they do not find a need to send messages anymore. However, that’s not how you should work in your marriage. Love filled text messages can become your new Cupid. Send him naughty and romantic messages when he is working or somewhere out. These messages will excite him and bring a whiff of good ol' days in place. You can surely cheer him up in an extremely stressful day by your joy-filled texts that will work as fire and ignite your long lost romance. Tease him with your seductive voice messages and see how he craves to cradle you in his arm right in the evening!
#4. Take Initiatives For Romance
So was it your husband the one who always initiated the romance, all this while? Do you feel shy to initiate sex? This is not something you should avoid doing. In fact, it is the most integral factor of adding that spark to your marriage. It is not your husband’s responsibility all the time to take an initiative and commence the romantic night. Surprise him as you dress up in his favorite lingerie and linger in your floral musk fragrance, turn on the romantic music and let the night slip away in exotic love-making. What are you wiating for? Get started and plan a wondeful date night for him.
#5. Dress Up More For Him
Now after marriage, the most stupid thing women can do is stop making efforts in dressing up and looking gorgeous for him. Not just when you have a party to attend, even for the usual days, make some attempts to dress up for your husband. Almost all men love their wives to look sexy and stunning whenever they admire her nonchalant beauty. You should start dressing up without any reason sometimes. You can make his long day worth it when he gets to enjoy the visual treat the moment he steps home after work.
#6. Be With Him Emotionally
As the cliche proofs that men do not like to reveal when they are emotionally weak. They pretend to be physically and emotionally strong because they think that it is their duty to hide their emotional stress. But you need to become his safest place where he can just come anytime and can share anything. You need to understand the fact that men are shy to cry in front of anyone and are less expressive. It is rather your responsibility to understand when he is going through an emotional roller coaster personally or professionally. Lend your shoulder to your husband whenever he needs it. These little gestures can make you even closer.
#7. Food Is The Way To His Heart
As they say that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” This is precisely the most popular belief which can never be ignored. Cook a favorite meal for him in the morning and treat him with delicacies at night when he comes back from work. If you both work and get less time to spend with each other, cooking together is yet another way to bring you closer and well, kitchens are the best places to explore the naked souls. Play around in the kitchen to leave the desert for the bed.
#8. Tease Him More
It is rightly said that when you cannot have it, you start wanting it even more. Following this strong belief, tease him more. Believe us on that; this is common in almost every men. Use it mindfully and tease him when he is out probably at work or with friends. He will want to rush back to you just to have a hold of you. Send some sexy snaps if you are not around him. If you are with him on a date at some fancy bar, feel him, touch him, seduce him and leave him wanting for more.
#9. Talk About Fantasies
If you haven’t till now or stopped doing it, start it right away. Men love talking about the fantasies you have in your mind. They will love to know the sexy and dirty things women want them to do to them. Share those desires, so that you can spice up your life a little bit more. Also, you really need to know what are the exact things that he likes and wants you to do. If you both will start sharing your fantasies, you will desperately wait for the time when you can turn those fantasies into sheer reality.
#10. Play Around With Music
Have you ever tried to seduce your husband with music? You should try it this time. It will really change the way you can seduce him. Music has diversity, and it can actually change the person’s mood in seconds, literally in seconds. Music can make you feel happy, emotional, angry, energetic and even erotic. Therefore, don’t shy away to reveal your emotive side to your husband and make a strong move to seduce him by music. Different couples have different kinds of music to turn on, therefore find your music to seduce your husband.
#11. Buy Sexy Lingerie
Well, we know this is the "it" thing to start the night on a sizzling note. Surprise your beau with the sexy little things that you're wearing beneath those clothes. If you make them wait for so long to let them see them, make sure to make it worth their while. Investing in sexy lingerie can never disappoint you and your husband of course. This can become a very strong ticket to seduce him.
#12. Make Out Passionately
All of the today’s erotic fantasies and wild perspective towards intimacy has made us forget the passe tricks to lure him. You can obviously try everything with your husband if he likes it the other way round. However, nothing can take the place of the classic passionate missionary to make him feel like a man or just spend hours cuddling and kissing each other. It is an intense and emotional kind of seduction. But you can be at least assured of the fact that it will leave your husband excited at the end.
#13. Arrange A Sex Date
Of course, nothing can take a place of spontaneous sex. However, arranging a sex night can be even sensual and wild. If you can set up a date which ends up with sex, your husband will be the happiest man in the world for sure. You can even meet him in the bar after office and get drunk with him just like the old times. And you won’t even know how the temperature rose in your bedroom in no time. You don’t have to feel shy to seduce your own husband. Take a move and get on with it.
This was our guide with which you can seduce your husband. Is there anything you want to include? Do let us know in the comment section below.
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I have one simple question. Why we have to seduce men and they have to do nothing?