Merits and demerits of marrying a social butterfly

Marrying a social butterfly can fill our lives with events and joys, but then it depends on the personality of both the partners.

Someone who is very social, outgoing and fit into any social group is one who is called a social butterfly. Such people whether male or female take life easy and are rarely serious. Yet they are popular. This is because they can change their personality according to situations and put the whole event out of their minds the moment they are out of it.

I may be a serious person appreciating a social butterfly as a spouse who fills my life with joy and I also enjoy his popularity is society. He can wipe away the shyness out of me, turn me into an extrovert to some extent and help me to know a lot of people.

I can relax my nerves at times with a social butterfly as my life partner. Such partners also have the skill of handling people with different temperament at the various situation.

However, marrying a social butterfly has its demerits too. There's the possibility of being sucked out financially and physically. We all want some time to ourselves when we can think in retrospection, take some serious decision and relax through meditation.

This will not be possible with a social butterfly as a partner as you both would get exhausted at the end of the day, socialising here and there. There is no other way but to drop down into bed dead tired.

A social butterfly may have the skill to please and attract people but such a partner lacks steady traits that are essential to lead a life together and make marriage a success. Each person has his own choice regarding social groups and hence would not be comfortable in any social group.

I and my husband are social but would not enjoy a cocktail party where people get drunk and behave recklessly. Having a social person as a life partner is good but not a social butterfly.