People marry for companionship and security. Infidelity is very difficult to deal.
Cheating may be an emotional problem. Men may do physical or emotional cheating. Men cheat their wives to show off their power, because of boredom, or for pleasure sake. They may also be addicted to pornography or strippers.
A powerful man is a good candidate for cheating. It is not that his wife is not beautiful or attractive. It is only about his opportunities to cheat. When a man is cheating it is not necessary that the wife is wrong. The man may be also thinking that the wife will not feel bad as she is unaware of what is going on in her back. Some men also tend to cheat on a woman they like very much.
You are a family when you are married to someone. You will be having children. Removing a family member is not so easy. Cheating may cause low self-esteem in the wife. She may lose all the trust in her spouse. She may feel humiliated, depressed or may get revenge feelings.
Reasons why women stay with her cheating husband.
# Women tend to be more forgiving. She may forgive him because she loves her husband so much.
# It may not be bothering for her until it is done on her face. Once again the reason is she loves him so much.
# Becoming a single parent is not so easy and she loves her children.
# Understanding that all human beings have flaws.
# They may be concerned about finances.
# To maintain the dignity of her family.
Love is the key. Love is to give and not to take. Keep love alive. Selfishness is not loved. Do not magnify the imperfections of your spouse. Do not think that she should bear all your imperfections.
Overcome her imperfections with love and be a good husband. It does not mean that you should become a mat placed on the door and bear negative behavior. In such situations, both of them should take a counseling.
It is difficult question to answer. May be is the best possible answer.
It would be a foolish decision made to stay with a partner cheating you. But if He/She feels guilty and promises that it wont be repeated then a chance should be given.
No, never. Staying with a partner who has been cheating on you is a really dumb decision. Trust is a very major aspect for a healthy and long lasting relationship. And without trust, the relationship is like a body without soul.