Why Should you remain single till 25 and then Marry?

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Why Should you remain single till 25 and then Marry?

Being in the 20s is very amazing time of life. After being in the cocoon of childhood and adolescence, one will emerge from that shell like a butterfly and enter into the adulthood. Yet one doesn’t have to assume the responsibilities of adulthood. This is the time where a person completes his/her education and plunges into job hunting. Receiving the first salary is like offering a candy to a child, the pure delight being the same. The thrills, joy that salary offers are nothing but exhilarating. 

A person can go for adventure hiking, trekking or paragliding or bungee jumping. Or they can go for a tour to exotic places with their near and dear. Or they can involve themselves in social welfare activities or pursue their hobbies without any obstacles and embarrassments of studies or job hunting. Like a free bird you can soar high and fly with all the merriment and vigor the youth offers to you.

But in the Indian context, responsibility goes hand in hand for the eldest child of the family. Taking on the family’s burdens off the shoulders of his/her parents at a very tender age is the norm. So for them, enjoyment of youth will be mingled with the responsibilities that they bore. And yet they carry all these with a brave, happy and contended face. We will never be able to see a worn out or tired look on these charming youths face. That’s the power of 20s. You will have the strength and guts to face all the oddities and extremities of life with a brave face and unlike the adolescents; you don’t carry the troubles on your sleeves. It will remain in your heart – firm and affixed.

So whether you are in the former or latter category, the freshness, robustness and the kind of energy that the youth offers is beyond words. The darings, toughness and the risk taking measures that one deploys in their youth will see a steeping decline once they enter their 30s. By that time, they will have to think not only about their selves, but also their tiny tots that clings on to them. So enjoy this wonderful time. But the only predicament the youths face is this: Wherever they look, they see only happy romantic couples. But as the saying goes – the grass is always greener on the other side. Once married, they will only see happy singles!

So you can marry at 25 or 35 or when the right person comes to you. But it will be good waiting at least till 25 to marry. Because by that time you would have the chance to taste the various taste buds of life, be it sweet, salty, sour or bitter. You can go for a desired job or wait till you get one. You can fall in love, get a broken heart, commit mistakes, pursue your hobbies and do all the silly things in life until the nature’s call wakes you up. There will come a time when the need to settle overpowers you. The feeling of wanting a life partner, the warmth of their body, the urge to hold your child in your arms will overpower you then all the things you had done earlier will feel meaningless to you. This natural feeling that comes in all living beings is the wake-up call for a person to get married or settled. So when the right person appears, just hold him/her together for such moments come rare and never miss the chance.

So till then, remain single and enjoy all the nuances and oddities the life offers to you after all this world is small and life is long!

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