How to Ask a Guy Out on a Date?

All the ladies, we need to change the way the society works. Maybe we even have been trying to do so. Women have almost got what they always wanted, i.e., equal status with men in this status quo position. Women, are today, walking neck to neck with their male counterparts in offices and are even getting equal pay now. Feminism has worked wonders for this society. But what about asking a guy out on a date. Why do we still wait around for the men to make the first move while we drop subtle hints and expect them to understand it?

Why are women lagging behind in this and not getting what they always wished for? How upsetting is this when they fail to gather enough courage to walk up to a guy and tell them how they feel. You do not always have to play the card of "hard-to-get." If you make the first move, that is itself impressive, you do not have to do much to get the guy's response after that. Women should start asking guys out on dates as that is so much better than it seems. Let us first understand why women should make the first move.

Why Should Girls Make The First Move?

Think about it like this - what if the guy you have been looking at is just too shy to come up and ask you out. So if you do not make the first move, you will never know what it would be like to be with him. So if you feel attracted towards a guy who is not so outspoken, be the bold one and approach him. This might take the unnecessary burden off him. It might sound very typical; it is very sensuous when a woman takes control and works for what she wants. The confidence will make the guy impressed by you even before you start dating him. This is just an add-on for you in the relationship.

Waiting around for a guy while you give him hints can become tiresome and confusing. To end all this, you should just walk and ask him out right away. There is the solution to all your problems. You will straight away know whether the other person is interested in you or not. You do not have to spend sleepless nights wondering what if. And what is the worst that could happen if you make the first move? You will get rejected, and then you can just move on with your life. You will know that the guy wants something different in life. You do not have to take things personally.

Also, a research shows that majority of the guys have agreed to women should make the first move as well. 95% guys want the burden to be shared with women. They also say that it is very inviting when a girl approaches them. Now if that does not convince you, you should think twice. Besides we are here to help you to advice on how to ask a guy out on a date.

How To Ask A Guy Out On A Date?

#1. Use A Cheesy Pick Up Line

Guys do not get asked out that often, so every little effort that you make to ask him out will be worth it. All those witty lines that have been used on you by guys to ask you out, it is time to use them now. Take anyone that fits the situation perfectly and gather some confidence to make the pickup line work. Since guys have always been the ones to make the first move, they will be quite surprised by your gesture and will react in a good way.

#2. Send The Message Through A Friend

If the guy you like is acquainted with someone you know or are friends with, you can use it to your benefit. Let that common friend know how you feel about him. This will save you the effort to gather that huge courage to walk up to a guy and ask him out. You will be a cute coward for him when he knows your feelings. But this will still work as it will get the message through to the guy you are crushing on.

#3. Buy A Drink For Him

Getting a drink for someone is the universal way of saying that I find you hot and want to go out with you. Also, you will not have to make many efforts after you both are down with some tequila shots. The alcohol will speak for you and make the way clear. The guy will also get your hint, and not many guys say no to an offered drink.

#4. Pass Him Your Phone Number

This one is the easiest in the list as all you have to do is pass the phone number to the guy and rest is up to them now. They have to make the next move, and you can chill. You can try various ways to do this. If you are working, you can share your business card with them which has your number on it. If you are in the same college, you can simply ask for help in homework and exchange numbers. If you are at a bar or party, you can write your number on a paper napkin and send it across by a waiter. There are so many ways you can make this work.

#5. Go Out On A Group Date

This will reduce the stress on your mind as you can act like friends if you want to. It will feel more like just hanging out rather than a date if that is more comfortable for you at first. You can just tell them that you and your friends are going out to a movie or bowling and ask if he would like to tag along. He will notice that you find his company amusing. And if the group date goes well, he might just ask you out on a date himself.

#6. Match His Craziness

You have to play a little game in this one by buying two tickets to a match or a concert, anything that he likes. Then you have to play the sad girl role where your best friend has ditched you, and you really wanted to go for this upcoming game or sporty event. Tell them you will love to have some company. Then wait to see how they react to this. If the guy is least bit interest, they will propose to join you. That is how easily you can get the guy to go out with you.

#7. Ask Him Out On His Favorite Activity

If you want to keep the pressure low while asking him out, make the date more man-centric. So instead of having to go to a romantic restaurant, you can now indulge in some dandy fun which you can enjoy as well. It could be anything from hiking to watching a football game. The guys cannot say no to these things mostly. So first find out what they love doing and then get on the action plan. If they like to go-carting and you like it too, you know where you can make your love happen.

#8. Send A Love Note

This is another way to ask out a guy where you do not have to face them. You can either pen down your feelings on a paper, or even a text message will do. Let them know that you want to go out and leave your number if it is the paper note. Then leave it somewhere they will easily notice it like their bag or locker. They will love the gesture and will definitely want to know the person behind the words.

#9. Go And Have A Conversation

You do not have to be so scared of walking up to a guy to ask him out. You should start out in a subtle way by making an interesting conversation between you two. When they become a little comfortable talking to you, you can drop the important question you have dying to ask. Let them know why you like them and then see how they take it. If they are interested in you, they will immediately respond to it positively.

We know it is really difficult when it comes to making the first move especially if you are breaking all the norms set by the society. So how did you find the article? Let us know in the comments.

We hope we were able to help you with this advice.

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