10 Ways You Can Ask Someone Out On A Date

Have you been crushing on someone? If yes, then you are probably thinking of ways to ask your crush on a date and perhaps hope that things go down your way. Well, understandably asking someone out is one of the toughest things that you have to go through.

However, everyone will tell you that once you get through the crucial stage of asking your crush out, the road ahead is a pretty beautiful one. You feel more content and satisfied in your life. After all, you have just got the final piece that completes the jigsaw of your life.

The underpinning of any relationship is to be who you are. There should be no pretense or blasphemy in your relationship for that matter. And coincidentally this is something that is overarching even in asking your crush out. So read on further to know how you can make your moment with your crush memorable:

#1. Ask anyone, and they’ll tell you that being authentic is the key to everything in a relationship. If you be what you are and who you are, really; then your relationship will go a long way and will become one of the most beautiful things of your life. So remember, just be who you are.

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#2. Another important thing that you must remember before asking someone out is that you don’t owe anything to anyone. If your feelings are true and upright, then you just have to let the other person know of them. However, avoid seeking approval from the other person, because a relationship is more about understanding rather than seeking approvals.

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#3. Okay, so for a moment let’s assume that your crush has agreed to go out with you. Never think that the work has been done. Rather, now would be the best time to make a long lasting impression. The person you have come out with surely means a lot to you, so make sure that you let them know that. Have great conversations with them but never forget to listen to what they have to say. Trust us, your listening skills will always be appreciated.

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#4. So if you have done what was asked of you in the previous tip, here is a contradiction, which is equally important. Yes, you have to show the other person that you like them, but you never have to sound needy or desperate. Just like the opinion of your partner is important, so is yours. Remember, never ‘try’ to be anything, just be who you are, and it will do wonders for you.

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#5. Okay, so speed kills. It surely thrills, and you might feel you’re reaching towards your goal much more quickly, but rushing things in a relationship is a terrible idea. To begin with, no meaningful relationship develops overnight, and if it does, chances are it won’t stay the same for a very long time. Rushing things can have a lot of repercussions: it can make you look sleazy and even anxious or arrogant. So, never rush things. Play it cool, and things will fall into place.

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#6. We are not perfect. We come with our share of flaws, and our partner should embrace us with all of them. However, you want to make sure that these flaws don’t characterize you in front of your date when you ask them out. You’ve grown old with yourself and know the best about you. So, always let your positive side out when you ask your date out. Believe it or not, the first impression goes a long way.

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#7. Okay, one thing that is not only restricted to asking someone out but is essential for your life in general: never lie. Always be truthful. Especially, when the person is your date, you should never lie to them because if things get going, then they will know the truth at some point in time in the future. That could have dire consequences on your relationship. Also, lying makes you look nervous. So, just be truthful. Remember, you have got nothing to hide, and good people appreciate you for your honesty.

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#8. So, you guys are having a good time at your date, and everything seems to be going great. Now, it is time for another thing, to get the second date. Before you do that, make sure that you seek permission for asking an essential question from your date. Remember that asking permission is not like seeking approval. Asking permission from your partner lets out the impression that you respect them and earns you brownie points; and also a yes for the next date.

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#9. If you’re a guy who wants to ask a girl out, then this one is totally for you. Girls love art and especially music and songs. So, why not put in a little effort and write a song for your crush? You can tell how much you like her and everything that is amazing about her. This is bound to get you a lot of success in the dating game. So, get creative and ask them out.

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#10. Let’s end this one with a piece of wisdom for you. Don’t overburden yourself with all these things. It is not hard as it appears to be. All you need is that one person who understands you and then see how magical your life becomes. We’re all young. We’ll make mistakes. Nothing is the end of the road. So just go out, discover yourself and have fun. Live life.

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Do you have a similar story or experience about you asking your crush out? In that case, we would love to hear from you. Kindly use the comment box to share your thoughts and opinions with us.