Getting attention from a man is an amazing feeling but what do you think about making him addicted to you? Making a man addicted to you is easy if you play the right cards. If you want your man to be as addicted to you as he is to video games, make sure to stay in his range and keep giving him the sense that you like him.
But if you want to know how to get a man addicted to you, make sure you don’t go too strong. Keep your moves subtle and make him hopelessly and completely hooked to you. Eventually, he will have to face the reality and know that he’s addicted to you.
#1. Start With An Introduction
Do you think that it’s a stupid idea? We are sure you do, but let us tell you that this is the first step towards making a man addicted to you. Before you get any deeper, you need to know that he’s right for you. Look beyond the pretty face and his chiseled body. Go for it and say a simple ‘Hi’ to sound normal. Talk to him exactly the way you talk to other people. Seduction will come later.
#2. Know What He likes
If you really want to make this guy addicted to you, then the next step is to know him better. Try to learn about things he likes and dislikes, his profession, hobbies, and lifestyle. The more you know, the more you’ll be able to use all of these as tools to win his affections. Once you know about his interests, you’ll be able to bring up topics of his interests which will make him pay attention to you. That way he’ll also know that you people share common interests and will make him think about doing those things with you.
For instance, you can always talk to him about the movie that he likes, and once he has your attention, he’ll surely ask you to watch the sequel together. Also if you get a guy talking about something they are passionate about, they’ll feel good about it and will surely respond positively.
#3. Talk About Yourself Too
Once you start talking to this man, make the conversations about yourself. Don’t get too personal and wait for him to react. His reaction will make you understand his personality. Include topics like sports, movies, music, politics or whatever he is interested in. Your prime motive should be to engage him in a conversation so you can learn more about him.
#4. Social Media To Your Rescue
In a world where social media is more important than breathing, why not use it for making your next move? Start following him on Facebook and Instagram and occasionally keep liking his pictures and updates. Do not overdo it, just keep it occasional. Liking few of his pictures will make him know that you appreciate his looks and will also make you aware of his interests. If he starts reciprocating with likes and comments on your pictures then just know that it is a very good sign. Pull back a little bit so that he will think where you are and why you haven’t been liking as many of his posts. Be cautious about overdoing it.
#5. Bump Into Him Every Now And Then
If you have followed the previous steps then by now, he knows you well enough. It’s okay if your first conversation didn’t go very well, now you can try to stay around him and pique his interests. Put yourself in his path if he’s going somewhere. Physical interaction is pivotal in developing a stronger relationship and regularly meeting him will attract him towards you. Repeated exposure to you will increase his feelings for you. Some of the best ways to spend more time with him are by frequenting his local venues (bars, restaurants, bookstores, etc.) or by getting invites to same social events as him.
#6. Dress For Him?
Looks definitely aren’t everything, but they can be a very big part of attracting a person in the beginning. Therefore, it is important that you look your best when you put yourself in his way. You may dress casually but make sure you look clean. Avoid looking shabby or messy. Most importantly, smell good. A nice smell will surely get him addicted to you. And remember that everyone loves a great smile. So wear you smile whenever you see him.
#7. Put Your Friends To Use
If you have common friends, try being around them more. It will help you talk to him more whenever he hangs out with your friends. React to his conversations but don’t overdo it.
But if you both have different friends circle, then catch him when he’s alone. Make a conversation with him when you find him walking alone or sitting by himself.
#8. Don't Scare Him Off
Don't follow him everywhere he goes. Be chirpy and cheerful when he’s around but don’t force yourself on him. You’ll scare him off if he finds you wherever he goes. Find the right balance. You may stalk him on social media but don’t become a real-life stalker. You can also try to text or call him at times, but do not be too repetitive in doing so. He'll come your way if you maintain the dispositions of friendly interest.
#9. Make Him Feel Special
Now that you are friends, it is the time that you tell him that he’s not just 'one of the guys,' but holds special value in your life. Don’t make it too obvious but give him little hints. Don’t share your feelings too easily, but subtle gestures will make the right impression. Some sweet talks or a little flirting will make him go crazy for you; an addiction will no longer be a problem.
#10. Keep It Subtle
By giving him a little importance and showering him with little trust will make him feel special. Once you do it, he’ll subconsciously register that something’s happening. But don't make it too obvious. Everything should fall naturally. A bit odd, but never forced. You can try touching him just a little bit more than you touch other people. You can also give him a hug when you see him.
We hope that the ways mentioned above have been able to answer all your questions regarding 'how to make a guy addicted to you.'
Have you ever been addicted to any guy? Was the addiction a healthy one? Do you want to make a man addicted to you? Let us know in the comment section below. We would love to know your experiences and thoughts.
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