If you have a cell phone and a partner, there’s a good chance that you’ve already engaged yourself in some level of sexting. Or even if you haven’t, we are sure that you must have had some kinky desires to sharing selfies of your private parts or arousing them with your fantasy world. Sexting was initially used by teenagers who had to satisfy their raging hormones by sexting if not indulging in sex.
Let’s face the reality, phone cameras were invented for a reason, and probably sexting was one of them. Studies have suggested that sexting has shown positive results in improving relationships.
A majority of people who sext say that texting their partner about their sexual fantasies and desires have really helped their relationship to grow by leaps and bounds. And it totally makes sense, because sexting is the modern day form of foreplay.
Even sexperts suggest that sexting is a great way to keeping things hot and spicy. It is like a short and dirty preview of what’s about to come when you’ll be finally together.
Yes, sexting is an activity that the lustful teenagers can do, it can certainly do wonders in your relationship, especially if it’s a long-term committed relationship. The effects of sexting on a relationship are more likely to be positive because it is said to stimulate intimacy between the partners.
Sexting is a form of expressing your erotic self with the help of smartphones and fancy situations that enact the feelings and emotions out of excited souls. With technology coming up with something innovative and mind-boggling every day, it is time we all get our creative instincts to work. Before the lexicon came into existence, it was near to impossible to think that partners could share their intimate moments even without being with each other. Sexting definitely benefits your relationship as it helps the partners to express their desires and expectations from each other through a mere conversation. Technology has provided us with the options of using pictures, videos, emojis and audios that help in making the conversations more exciting and fun.
One of the most favorite benefits of sexting is the fact that helps the couple discuss their fantasies about sex and how they would want to go about it. There are times when partners fail to discuss the minutest feelings that they go through; sexting has just made things easier.
Sexting helps you to digitally paint your fantasies and explore one another. There are high chances of you discovering a new, interesting and exciting side of your partner that you were not aware of. For couples who have been married for years, sexting can actually help them explore and experiment new things in the bedroom. It can offer them a new glimpse of their partners in a completely new light.
#1. Healthy Risks Are Important
Sexting is all about creating erotic stories with your partner that can be extended to great lengths. While you may be surprised with your partner’s fantasies at first, eventually you’ll realize that such healthy risks can support and improve your relationship in the long run.
#2. Makes Things Easy
If you can be open about your fantasies with your partner, it’ll just be easy to face them in real and maybe experiment with them too. It will encourage both of you to be more honest in the relationship.
#3. Rekindles The Lost Fire
Sexting can help you keep the flame of your relationship blazing. A fantasy that has been discussed through sexting can take days to craft and the foreplay involved will only add to your erotic bank. It is common for married couples to let go of their roles as lovers and just be partners or parents. Sexting allows them to develop an erotic connection, which can be felt through the days and the nights.
#4. Helps Explore Your Creative Side
Sexting allows you to express yourself creatively in whichever form you like. Some partners do not use a lot of words, and their chats are usually supported by photos, videos, music, and emojis. These combined with the 26 letters of the alphabets aid in building your erotic fantasies.
#5. Arouses Your Imagination
Human beings are blessed with great imagination, and sexting just brings that out. Using a few enticing photos will only leave your partner wanting for more. While sexting, try not to share full pictures, leave them to the receiver’s imagination. Let them be wildly uninhibited.
While sexting sounds all fun and exciting, it has its own bad side. Exchanging your sexual desires and fantasies is a very intimate affair and hence needs to be processed carefully.
Just as sexting benefits your relationship, it can completely ruin it too, if done the wrong way. Just as discussed, sexting involves sharing of intimate pictures and videos which if received by a pervert will damage your life permanently.
So just before you enter the sexting zone, be sure to follow these tips.
#1. Have The Talk
Before you finally decide on sexting, talk to your partner about the do’s and don’t’s. Discussing the boundaries will allow both of you to play in the uninhibited space. You can also set up expectations about things that you both are okay with, what excites you and what pictures you both enjoy. Using sexting in the proper manner will help you amp up for sex.
#2. Have Safe Sext
We are super concerned about your safety, and therefore we urge you to safely practice sexting. You can use separate phones to avoid being caught or embarrassed in front of your kids or friends. If you want to stay away from the epic meltdown of your children reading your sexts, just be careful. Do not just toss your phone to them for playing games or making calls. If possible, delete all the dirty images that you shared with your partner if you do not want anyone else to know how naughty you are.
Keeping your sexting separate from other conversations benefits you in having one conversation thread that is used for the regular stuff (like bring a bottle of milk, take the dog out for a walk) and the other one for your beautiful fantasies.
#3. Be Playful And Open
It is no surprise that many couples find it difficult to directly express their erotic desires to each other. That’s when sexting helps. Texting your partner implies that you are not with them at the moment and yet you are in contact with them. The indirect connection helps you in opening up and confronting your feelings. A long-term relationship is usually intact because both the partners have accepted the way they are and have been open about their feelings. Same goes for sexting. If you wish to sustain your relationship on healthy grounds, it is important that you keep yourself open yet playful while showing your naughtier side to your partner.
Easier said than done, expressing yourself openly takes a great deal of courage and self-acceptance. Letting your partner dive into your erotic world is a big step in your relationship, and therefore needs careful processing.
If after reading the article, you think that sex and eroticism are too hot a topic for you and your partner to discuss, then we think that there could be some problem in your relationship. Talk it out or maybe take some professional help.
Sexting may not come across as natural to you, but if both of you are planning to give it a try, we are sure that it will benefit your relationship. Saying that we would also suggest that sexting is not everyone’s cup of tea. If you do not find yourself comfortable while talking or texting about your sexual fantasies, there is nothing wrong about it. Not every one day dreams of getting laid in the midst of the woods or get naughty in a moving airplane.. some of us like to keep it simple and clean.
Just remember that sexting is fun only when you think it is. Do not force yourself or your partner to sext. Every relationship has a different flavor, if some like it hot and spicy the other like it sweet and pleasant.
Do you think that sexting has helped in improving your relationship? Let us know in the comment section below.
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