Love is such a beautiful thing. To meet the woman of your dreams & to want to be with her, is an experience of hope, of positivity, of aspirations. We’re sure a lot of engaged/married men will endorse that.
For the singletons, who wish to win over the heart of the woman of their dreams, we’ll give you a lowdown of how to achieve your objectives.
Grooming & personal hygiene are the primary criteria in order to leave an impression. You need to look presentable. We’ll take it up a notch, and encourage you to look dapper. Make that first impression count. ‘Drop-dead-handsome’ is the aim. Having said that, it is vital that you’re comfortable in what you wear.
It absolutely important that you communicate your intent to the woman you seek, and not be friend-zoned. It goes without saying that it’s way too early to say it in the first meeting. Your declaration comes only after having spent a significant amount of time, knowing her.
Any relationship ideally begins with friendship. And while this friendship is in its nascent stages, you have to undauntedly pursue your target of winning your woman’s heart. However, there exists a very thin line between pursuing and stalking. It is critical that you don’t come across as a creep. It is best, initial conversations remain platonic.
The idea of charming a woman is to be a good listener. Be attentive to her & reciprocate accordingly. Ideally, once your woman feels comfortable with you, the conversations become more interesting. You needn’t remind her of your intentions every now & then.
Remember, you need not hog up all of her time. For a relationship to grow, one needs space. A little bit of your absence from her life can work wonders. Allow each other to pursue the same. The quality of time spent is more important than the quantity.
As individuals it is not necessary that your objectives and expectations will be the same. It is also possible that your likes and dislikes may differ. It is essential that you accept your woman’s choices & respect her for being different. Remember, the idea is to complement each other, not be the same as each other.
A wise man once said, be the person you are when you meet someone for the first time. Else, you’ll have to pretend all your life. Never fake yourself in front of the woman you love. Someday, the charade might run its course.
Love is an everlasting feeling, a continuous process. Never forget that. It is essential that your feelings remain consistent even after your lady has reciprocated her feelings. For winning a woman’s heart might be a one-time
It is fundamental that your woman gets to spend time with her other friends. Meeting new people broadens one’s horizons. Remember that you don’t own her. You both have your own individual existence.
Let every day be different. Impress her in more than one way. Be unpredictable. Be it breakfast dates or kayaking rides or taking a language course together or midnight city-walk. Keep her guessing, what’s next. There is no limit to things that you can do together. As long as the experience is memorable, nothing else matters.
Socialize with each other’s friends. Nothing can be more comforting for her than to have your social acceptance by her friends, and vice-versa. Hanging out together with friends often can be fun. And the pressure to impress is balanced in such meetings.
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