I've been in a committed relationship for last 2 years, but we never really said "I Love You" so far. A few days back, my partner said, "I love you," but somehow the same 3 words didn't come out that naturally for my end!
It's not that I don't love him, but somehow I'm not the kind of girl for whom "I Love You" has to be said out aloud.
Just because I don't say "I Love You", does that mean I don't love him? And, just because he says "I Love You" do I've to say it back at that very moment itself? I would love to know what others think on this!
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If you are not ready to say “ I love you to your partner”, then you can just make him/her understand that you have not really found out that is it really love or infatuation. In my opinion, love has an innate capacity, it takes time for you to understand that you are in love. For instance, I have a friend, she got into a relationship with a man whom she had known for the past 4 years. When he asked her up, she accepted his proposal, but never uttered those magical words till she actually realized that it was not infatuation but love. So, do not hesitate, if your partner loves you, they will certainly know.
Better to not commit for something you are not sure about.
Even if you are not ready to say it back does not mean you should hurt the feelings of a person who loves you.So just for their sake say that you love them too. Love takes time to blossom and who knows you will soon feel the same way.
It's fine not to say I Love You every now and then. However, if you're saying that it has been two years and you still haven't uttered the three words, then things might not be as clear as you believe they are. There are moments when you feel like saying the three words and if you haven't had those moments in 2 years, you probably need to retrospect if there is love between you and your partner.