Whether it is your spouse or a casual hookup, rules for being in the bed remains more or less the same. There are certain things that you should never say when you are in the bed with your partner. They might sound conventional, but they work best in bed. People gets carried away in the heat of the moment, that's natural.
Sex is undoubtedly an incredibly intimate relationship or experience between two people. So when you are in your bedroom, it is very important to keep your rebel side aside for a little while. You, of course, don’t want them to point out your flaws, right? Then you should avoid that too. Thus, as far as the vocabulary of bedroom phrases are concerned, you can trust us. Let’s see some mood-killing phrases that you should extremely avoid.
#1. That’s t?
Even if a person showed 10 minutes of their talent, try and appreciate that. Reinforcing is important in bed as well like in any other activity. Even if you want to invest some more time, initiate and do that from your end.
#2. Hurry Up!
Ording your man or girl to do something in bed is not your right, understand that. If you want to do it slowly as you are orgasming late, it’s okay. Shouldn’t it be okay at their end as well?
#3. Is It In?
Now, this is the stage you can be really really mean. Though, this point is considered for all the lovely women out theirs. However, saying any mean thing like this will spoil the moment for sure. If you want to keep it crisp and hot, avoid saying such things.
#4. My Ex Never Did This
Comparing your partner with someone can be the worst thing you could do in general as well. However, playing the comparing game in bed? No, dude no! Also, he or she never did that, that’s probably the reason they are called ex.
#5. I’ve Been With Many Guys/Girls
Did they ask? No, right! So it there any point in bringing up the past when you are having such a romantic present. This is stupid to tell them how many vaginas/penises you have already crossed. It will do nothing but spoil your night.
#6. Have You Been Skipping The Gym?
He or she is well aware that they have gained a few pounds. But you being in their bed shouldn’t be making them realize that you noticed. Passing judgments can bring their mood down.
#7. Aren’t You Thinking To Change This Job?
Until and unless the job you are talking about is the blow variety, don’t take up this topic. This question will be a hard-on guaranteed killer of your romantic time. We understand you are concerned about their job, but not now.
#8. Your Friend Is Really Hot
There is always a time and a place to bring up the topics about friends. Especially when you want to appreciate your partner’s friend. Whether it’s their friend or not, complimenting someone else on the bed with your partner is a huge no.
#9. Which Of Your Ex Was Best?
If you will read this question closely you will hear “TRAP” screaming through the words. Therefore, bringing up exes and that too comparing them with your present partner is like offering your head to the ax. Keep comparison saved from outside of bed.
#10. I Love You!
This is a major disclaimer. If you are in bed with your spouse or long-term relationship partner, you can probably skip this. But if it’s casual dating or hookup, don’t take the advice of your orgasm. This is your orgasm talking. Don’t let your orgasm take over your words.
#11. So, Where Is This Going?
If you will ask this question straight away to your partner, you will freak the hell out of them. Don’t ask such question in the middle of having sex. You will anyway not get a straight answer to this question when you are all into their body. So skip it for the future.
#12. My Ex Used To Do It Like This!
Who really cares? Kindly save the detailed description for comparison between them and your ex for later. If you wanted your present partner to do it like that, you would have been with your ex only. Therefore, leaving the topic of exes is the best thing you should do at best.
#13. No! Not Like That
Alright, don’t apply your grade school’s teaching in bed. Constructive criticism is not going to take to your orgasm. It is not encouraging to be told to do it in a certain way. Thus, avoid giving your valuable feedback in bed. Even if you want to, do it politely.
#14. I’ve To Leave At “x” Time
Initially, making a space in mind that you will have to leave early will spoil the moments of being together as well. Cracking this bomb in the middle of nowhere that you will have to leave in a couple of minutes will be a major mood-killer.
#15. I Wish I Had More Thing To Grab
Now, here’s a newsflash friends! Not just women, but men also are insecure some of their body parts. Pointing out to something they are already insecure about is the worst you can do a human. Most importantly, you are doing it at the time when they are most vulnerable in front of you.
#16. Let’s Get Over With It Fast
Okay, there are times when you really are in a hurry. However, making your partner feel that way will drop down all the craving they have had. If you think you have an important meeting to attend and they will understand, they won’t.
#17. High Five
Dear adults, yes adults! You can do a lot more better than this. This is not a dollhouse where you are playing and demonstrating married life. This is real adult sex. Therefore, strictly avoid everything which makes your partner feel like you have friendzoned them.
#18. Baby Talk? A Big No!
There is no such thing that can kill the orgasm faster than the voice of a puppy or toddler, which is apparently made by your partner. You are well grown and should never kill the mood of your partner by talking to you are a newborn child. Just, don’t.
#19. Can You Pass My Phone?
Please do a favor to yourself and your partner, let your calls go to your voice for some time. Human beings are naturally addicted to their phones, yes! But as we discussed, there is always a time and place for everything. When out of five one person has checked their phone during sex, be the one from those four.
#20. You Want To Try “WHAT”?
Your partner might have suggested something that they must have seen in a porn and found exciting. However, a reaction like this will make them nervous and a little disinterested as well. That does not necessarily mean that you will have to agree what they are saying. But even if want to deny, so that politely that doesn’t make them question themselves.
These were a few things which you should NEVER say to your partner in bed. Let us know your thoughts as well in the comment section below.
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