Is there even one single soul on this planet who does not want to find love that lasts? The answer is a simple NO. Whether you are in a relationship, married or single, everyone wishes to find true love.
Love is a beautiful feeling which fills your heart with happiness and excitement. That feeling of being loved, taken care of by someone is one of the greatest joys in the world.
Many people find it difficult to find love because they do not understand it. The magical feeling of love is beyond the understanding of those who look for perfection. Love just happens; one cannot go around finding love. If it is meant for you, love will find a way to embrace you and drench your heart with the sheer feeling of happiness and joy.
As concluded through various experiences, love comes to you when you least expect it. True love that lasts comes when you stop looking for it. We suggest you to shift your focus from meeting people that you can love to improve yourself. Having true love by your side can change your life drastically. A little dose of love is sure to take away all your pain and sorrows.
#1. Work On Yourself
It is a common saying that you attract who you are. So, if you are a person who is on the lookout for love, you will attract similar people and therefore, find yourself a love that lasts. A love which is worth finding is never a waste of time and will ultimately reap fruitful results. You often come across people who are able to find lots of love and it is so because they love themselves. To love yourself means to accept who you are, to do what you love to and to not bother about what others think about you. Such people attract a lot of love because they have a positive vibe which attracts people towards them.
#2. Don’t Make Quick Decisions
It is a common saying that ‘marry in haste, repent in leisure’; which implies that hasty decisions often end up in regrets. Do not get into a relationship because you are tired of being lonely. Finding true love is not an easy task and to make your love last, you need to wait for it. By rushing into things related to love, you’ll end up sacrificing yourself. You might have to feel the bitter taste of an unsuccessful relationship.
#3. Keep Your Mind And Heart Open
Finding your true love is not an easy journey and therefore, it requires constant efforts. To find a love that will last long, you need to keep searching for your perfect match. Hit the gym, go to a bar or attend social events; all of it is fine until it lets you meet new people.
With a number of dating apps available, online dating has become a doable option. If you are not comfortable talking to people in the first meets, you can always use online platforms to talk,and later date people.
#4. Do Not Let First Sight Attraction Blind You
Break through the common misconceptions of true love is the one that leads to an instant attraction. It is not always the same. Love, at first sight, is mostly about physical attraction which cannot last forever. A relationship that is nurtured for a long time is the one that is meant to last forever. If it is meant to happen, love will find its way.
#5. Do Not Settle For Anything Less
Just because you want to find love, you should not get into a relationship which is less than your expectations. Being with a partner who disrespects or devalues you can never give you the love that you are looking for. You might find yourself in such situations while on your quest of finding your true love. Do not settle for something that is just OKAY. You deserve the best, and therefore just keep looking for love because it’s worth finding.
We do not mean that your true love has to be perfect; perfection is a myth. You will never be able to find an absolute match but definitely, someone who is perfect for you. Things become easy and comfortable when you meet someone who shares the same goals and opinions.
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#6. Endorse Your Availability
When you are finding true love, it is important that people know that you are available. To do so, you can always groom yourself. Carry yourself in a manner that gets you the wanted attention. Be confident, sincere and honest with yourself and just feel the love pouring in. be very expressive and attentive to the conversations that you make.
#7. Take The First Step
If you believe in true love, and you feel that love is something worth-finding, then why would you miss an opportunity of finding it just because you do not want to make the first move? We are sure you won’t. Whenever and wherever you are, just try to grab as many opportunities as possible.
And in case you are already with someone you think maybe your true love is, do not hesitate in expressing your feelings. Share your fears, your dreams, your aspirations with the ones that you think is your ideal match; things might just move ahead for both of you.
And if you were lucky enough to get married to your true love, do not let it fade away. Just hold on to them and let them know that you still care and love them as much as you used to.
#8. Make Constant Efforts
It is a proven fact that in any relationship the ‘Chasing’ phase is the most exciting one. While you are trying to convince your lover to love you back, you often end up doing the silliest thing to make them burst with joy. But where does all this craziness vanish away once you have them? To have a love that lasts, it is important that you make constant efforts to make your partner feel special every day. He/she needs to know that you are special to them and you still love them and will love them forever.
#9. Be Realistic
As humans, we are all suckers of love. We crave to have someone who will love us dearly and will stay with us forever. But are you sure that isn’t a scene from one of your favorite romantic movies? Yes, we knew it.
With so much love that these fictional movies have to offer, one is sure to fall in the trap of this unrealistic drama. Well, it is right to expect the excitement and madness once you are in love, but do not expect your partner to roam around with a box of paint and brush to paint the town red for you.
Knowing what you want doesn’t always result in getting it. Single people obviously know how difficult it is to find a love that lasts. While true love is worth finding, the process may get frustrating at times. We often make wrong decisions and end up in abusive or unsatisfying relationships. Just be patient and hopeful. True love will surely come to you when it is meant to be.
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Finding your true love may be your dream, but you should pop your bubble before somebody else does. True love is nothing more than a myth and it only exist within the limits of your television screen. Let’s go step by step and break a few myths about true love. Did you feel the butterflies when you met someone for the first time? Are those butterflies still there after years of togetherness? If yes, then let me tell you that those butterflies are actually nerves and if you constantly feel them, then there is probably something wrong in your relationship. Feeling the butterflies is nothing else but the nervousness that you feel when you talk to a stranger and if that nervousness prevails for too long, then maybe you still feel uncomfortable around that person. And that is definitely not a good sign. Second, don’t find true love, it will come to you. Really? In the Tinder age, do you expect people to come and knock
Second, don’t find true love, it will come to you. Really? In the Tinder age, do you expect people to come and knock on your door and ask you out? No-no, that is not happening. In a fast moving world like ours, you cannot just sit and wait for things to happen. You have to make them happen. And a right swap is sure to do that. (At least for one-night :P)
Third, you will know when you find your true love. How? Will somebody come and whisper it in my ear or will I hear the CUPID BELLS? This is all mythical. We all know that most of the times we end up in bad relationships with some even worse breakups. There is nothing like true love, we just eventually learn to adjust and compromise because with time and experience, we realize that a love that lasts forever is nowhere to be found, and we do need someone to spend our lives with, so we stick to some people who make us happy occasionally.
Yes, love is not based on the time or the kind of era we are living in. It is a feeling which is evoked in two individuals. It wouldn’t be fair to say that love cannot be found anymore. You can love an individual with all your heart and soul and still not get the love back, but that doesn’t mean that you will stop believing in the pure feeling of love. Since ages we have loved and had eternal love stories, which clearly states that love stays irrespective of time; what according to me is necessary to find the love of your life. Have a heart which believes that true love still exists. Besides, love is made with utmost efforts.