Friendship is a great bond of love between friends who want to be with each other no matter what the situations are and truly that’s what friendship is all about. Good Friends are very rare to find, we have heard this quote by many. Good and loyal friends are those who will lead you to all the righteous things in life whereas if you are accompanied by a bad group of friends, then it might be a result of your loss. Friends are on whom you can entirely trust upon but that too you have to see which friend of yours is trustworthy and which not.
As for I am concerned, friendship in the present scenario has lost its value. Friends today are with you for their benefit only. True friendship, in present days, is very rare to find I guess. Jealousy, hatred, competition, casteism, etc such are the things which are into destroying of a healthy relationship. Earlier people did not even know such things, and their friendship was known for years. We have great examples of Krishna and Sudama, whose friendship is hardly unknown by anyone. Friends are the ones who can also be said as the jewels of one’s life. But are we really into that millennium where this word “friendship” is present?
These day’s people are there with you as for their selfish motives. There’s hardly any loyalty left between friends. Whether it is your male or female friend, a person has to doubt once before trusting his or her friend. You just cannot trust your friend enough to share some secrets with them. Some people are like who have gained a master’s degree in back bitching. They are the ones who can hardly keep anything to their stomach. Friends should be such to share your joys or sorrow along with you but these days nobody stands with you when you have bad days. Fulfilling your selfish motives, just call a friend of yours and that’s all, your work is done. This is all that friendship is all about today. Especially with girls, hatred and jealousy are the most common issues. A girl can never see her friend rise. Girls have this habit of keeping their things to themselves and encouraging others to share their secrets with them and later on they are the one’s indulging in spreading the rumors all around. They hardly care about their relation and may even indulge in fights with her friends. Be it be the clothes or anything, as compared to boys, girls are on top for back bitching and jealousy. Competition is a good thing and I suggest everyone should have that feeling but to an extent. Going beyond that extent will lead to your failure only.
Many a time it has been seen that a friend of yours has betrayed you in some aspects, it might be the case of your girlfriend or money issues whatever, but betrayal is such a thing which in unexpectable by a person and if he or she faces it, is totally heartbroken and is hardly able to trust further. Friendship is a pure bond which does not allow for any bad or wrong situations. If you are into good company of friends whom you can trust with your life, nobody is but luckier than you. But if you are into a bad one then I guess it’s your fault and mistake to select such ass holes in your life as your friends.
Selection of friends entirely depends on a person. Nobody tells you who is good or bad. It’s on you to decide whom you select as your friend who will lead you to success not the failure in future. At last, I would just like to share few lines on friendship,
“A friend is a star that twinkles and glows
Or maybe like the ocean that gently flows
A friend is like gold that you should treasure
And take care of forever and ever
A friend is like an angel that is there to guide you
A friend is someone you can trust out of a few
A friend is more than one in a million.”
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