While there are endless discussions on porn and porn addiction, down the line watching porn with your partner is still a taboo. Many people watch porn these days, and in some cases, it also helps to boost sexual drive and experimentation. This is undoubtedly true that couples experiment and try what they watch in porn's. Then why not to watch porn together as a couple? There are always some sexual trends that can be tried in real life, but people hesitate because they assume their partner won’t like it. Watching porn together can be a true breakdown of all of the awkwardness and shyness for a couple. Before getting to how a couple can watch porn together, let us consider some potential benefits of watching porn together as a couple.
Some people are very shy, and they don’t really feel comfortable about sharing their fantasies. Porn lets you share your wild desires with your partner. Moreover, some people don’t even know what turns them on. Therefore, if you will watch porn together, it will help your partner understand what turns you on and what you don’t like. Even if you become speechless when it comes to talking about your fantasies, a small video clip will say it all. You will feel blessed and fortunate to see your fantasies acted out on the screen in front of you and your partner. This way you both can figure out what turns you on.
Porn can also speed up the foreplay. These days everything goes at an accelerated pace. The term 'fast' has got a new meaning altogether. If you have less time and have to invest it productively, watching porn is the best way. It will not just turn on both of you quickly but will also make the foreplay exciting and new every time. People usually get turned on in less than a minute. You need to make your intimate moments more significant, and porn can help a lot in that. Women can reach their maximum arousal by a porn clip in maximum 12 minutes whereas men can get aroused in 11 minutes.
Porn helps to lessen the danger of infidelity. As they say “Home is where your heart is.” Similarly home is certainly where you can get all sexual desires fulfilled. If you both are fulfilling each other’s sexual desires, you lessen the chances of your partner searching for sexual desires outside of the relationship. If you both will be open with each other about your sexual desires and share the fantasies together, infidelity will never be an issue in the relationship. The benefits of watching porn together as a couple is endless. The question is how you can do it. Let’s see how the process can be more fun, exciting and erotic for both of you.
You don’t know what it feels like to watch porn with your partner until you watch it. Directly asking about watching porn together can be difficult and awkward at first. However, if you both start talking about watching these things together, you will gradually get the hang of it. Be creative and ask questions to your partner about porns, sexual desires, fantasies and what not. Expressing oneself sexually varies from person to person. Also, the desires of a person are also different from other. Therefore, start asking questions to each other about your sexual fantasies. It will lead you to become more comfortable with each other and gradually to watch porn together.
If you consume porn a lot alone and you fantasize your partner with it, they won’t know it until you tell them. If you start discussing your preferences with honesty and in a straightforward manner, it will be easier for your partner to understand your behavior, emotions, and actions. Talking about porn is exciting. It will establish an open environment in your relationship which will allow you to talk out anything and everything with your partner. This setting will start encouraging the sense of acceptance in your relationship. There can be nothing better than honoring your partner's desires. Watching porn will make you do that.
Now, this is an important one. The next and very essential step is to decide the boundaries. Watching porn can be either done in your spare time or your quality time to spice things up in bed. Whatever happens outside the bed is nothing to worry about. However, what happens inside the bed has to be restricted according to your preferences. Therefore, set some boundaries about watching some specific kind of porn only. If your partner feels awkward in bed, you can adjust the porn according to your boundaries. You don’t have to go further than you feel comfortable in. Whether you are a guy or a girl, everyone has some boundaries. Respect those boundaries to keep watching porn as fun and romantic.
Planning a date is always fun for a couple. However, planning a 'porn date night' will be more than fun. To have a balance between your couple things and personal porn watching time, you can settle for an amazing porn date night. Finalizing it on the calendar is not that important though, but after a sexy dinner date, you both can look forward to an even hotter desert time. Also, this is the most amazing thing for long-distance couples. The relationship can be spiced up in just some clicks. Fulfilling your erotic fantasies are also a few clicks away on a porn date night. Also, more than making an assumption, talk to your partner about such ideas and then go for it.
Masturbating is a personal habit. It is your and only your business until you want someone to get involved in it. It a personal sexual habit which is healthy. It is more like a hygienic habit, but of course, it is more pleasurable. While watching porn masturbating is the most natural habit as claimed. However, when you watch porn with your partner, you can certainly involve them in your practices. You can even have your own personalized pornography while consuming a porn. Doesn’t that sound fun? Watching porn can develop many habits between a couple which can make your relationship even more fresh and exciting.
Every person has a different taste as far as the sexual desires are concerned. It is very natural to have mismatched sexual fantasies and taste in porns as well. Moreover, there can be a situation where you like watching porn, and your partner does not or vice versa. If your partner has never shown interest in your sexual desires, watching porn together is a fantastic idea. Also, it can kick-start your libido and transform you into that playful mood. Once you get your partner in the fun and playful spirit, it will become easier for you to be more comfortable in watching porn often.
To have a very organic and fluid attitude towards consuming porn, you can decide who will choose to select the kind of porn you want. You can designate your partner to select the kind of porn he or she wants to watch. Similarly, you can do it for one day. It will give you both more options to watch and you both will also get to know about each other’s choices. Take turns so that you both can explore your areas. This will not only let you know your partner’s choices, fantasies, and desire but also you can try your fantasies the day you drive. One more significant thing to do is to ask your partner whether they interested in watching the porn you played. Discussing it with your partner is obviously important.
Doing experiments and trying different things is the key to a healthy relationship. Search for hot porns which can turn you both on in no time. If you have always fantasized about romantic and sensual sex around hill stations, then search for the porns which can fit your choice. If you are searching for your preferences and your partner also loved that porn, so you know where to start. If your partner is intimidated by watching some porn, try something new that can make the connection between you even stronger.
Watching porn with your partner as a couple can be fun and is easily possible if you let the process of exploration exciting for both of you. Share your thoughts with us as well in the comments section below.
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