Why you should Break Up with Someone you Still Love?

Love is a strange emotion with its own version of what’s right and wrong. There are times when it demarcates the wrong by giving ample signs to know that the person who you are investing your time in is not worth the effort. However, there are times when love plays with your heart and makes you ponder upon the presence of the person you love and its value in your life.

Sometimes we have to take the hard decisions and let go of a person we love for other reasons that are equally important and significant in our life.

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If you are facing some the following things with your loved ones that are making you think about your relationship with them, it time to bid adieu to the relation, no matter how much you love the person:

#1. Your Life Leads You In Different Direction

Many a time, a couple may be madly in love, but that love cannot be the driving force to keep their relation last for long. If the direction in which your life is headed is different from that of your partner, there will come the point in time when you will have to leave the person to follow your dreams. In such cases, it’s better to take a call before getting attached to the person. It will help you part ways amicably.

#2. Your Expectations From The Relationship Vary

While you may be expecting the person to settle down with you in the future, there is no guarantee that you're significant other also holds the same opinion. Thus, when expectations from a relationship began to differ, it is best to leave the relationship and loosen your grip on the strings attached not to cause further damage to your heart.

#3. Differences Are Beyond Repair

People usually say that we fight with the person we love the most. However, post the fight it is imperative to communicate and express your opinions with each other. It is a healthy exercise that eliminates misunderstanding and clears the misconceptions. If you are experiencing endless fights with your partner with no communication to clear the air, the chances of them never getting resolved are higher. This will only hamper your relation and lead to more quarrels.

#4. Subjected To Abusive Relation

No matter how much your partner may love you, they have no right to subject you to abusive behavior. By abusive, it implies physical and emotional. If you feel that you are being exposed to violent behavior that is taking a toll on your health and psyche, do not waste more time in maintaining a farcical relation with the person you love.

#5. Deprived Of Happiness

The person you are dating may be the nicest person you have ever come across, but if the thought of leaving him often strikes your head, it may signify that you are not happy with him. In such cases, it's best to end your relationship for the betterment of each other and seek happiness in someone who actually delivers the same!

#6. The Case Of Mere Attraction Of Physical Beauty

Love can be tricky. You may love a person, but that emotion could be nothing more than the physical attraction. If you do not share a deep and emotional relationship with your loved one, maybe you never liked the person for their nature. One needs to understand that physical beauty fades away with time, leaving behind the soul. If your love is just a little attraction of the physical beauty, don’t bother much and save yourself from wasting time.

#7. If Your Love For Them Is Beyond Their Love For You

While love cannot be measured in quantity, yet if you feel that your partner does not love you as much as you do and lacks commitment, leave the person and save yourself from the pain of heartbreak. It may cause immense grief in the beginning, but life will be better in the future.

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