Should you be with a Person You Love or the Person Who Loves You?

We all know that loving somebody and getting loved back are two sides of the same coin or you can say two aspects of the same emotion. So, what difference does it make to an individual when one person loves more than the other. Since humans are not equations of math, so they tend to go out of balance on whether they should be a person whom they love or with somebody who loves them more?

There are numerous questions with which we struggle on an everyday basis. They tend to play with our brain tank in a very subtle manner. It is hard to figure out an answer to the question whether we should marry the person we love or the person who loves you? What do you think? 

Let’s find out an answer by keeping both the perspectives in mind.

Let Us Figure Out Whether It Is Good To Marry Somebody You Love Or Somebody Who Loves You More?

#1. To Protect Your Fragile Heart

It is generally seen that if you love somebody more than you should, you tend to suffer at some point in time as they do hurt you. It will happen because they will care about themselves more than you.  And if the other person loves you more then you won’t feel the pain as strong as you did when you loved somebody that strongly. It will be easy to get over the person as compared to the time you considered yourself more loving. Apart from that, you sense a feeling of protection because you know that person will not break your heart the way the person you loved in the past did. He or she will care about you more than them.

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#2.  You Let Them Go Easily

Relationships are broken apart due to varied reasons. No matter how much we try to control a situation, if it has to break down, it will. In a similar fashion, if you love somebody more and the person you love decides to vanish one day, how would you feel? Miserable is the word. They will not care to come back. Healing will probably take more time than you could think of. But if we think of it in an opposite way that is the other person loving you more then it will be easier for you to move on smoothly. You won’t feel that terrible ache in your heart that could almost kill you. You would definitely be hurt but not to that extent. Do you agree?

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#3.  Worship Is The Feeling You Get

We all desire to be loved immensely and that could give a boost to our self-confidence, self-esteem, and empowerment as that person treat you like a Queen or a King. Many of us have been in relationships where we loved more and we got no respect in return. But, the scenario gets changed over here; the person would cross all the boundaries just to see you happy. What’s better than keeping somebody with you who could jump oceans and not just puddles to see that smile on your face?

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#4. Certain Future

So, it’s quite difficult to get Monica and Chandler in real life but it is not impossible. You learn to love the other person who loves you way too much as time passes by. You won’t be able to ignore their goodness and care for a long period and therefore start falling for them. You can also see a certain future with them as they won’t run away from your life without any reason. Instead, they would look for reasons to love you more. Loving somebody who doesn’t reciprocate is like flying with a broken wing. Do you agree?

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#5. You Won’t Be Taken For Granted

Whatever decisions and choices you make, they will always be there to support you and guide you. Well, at least they would not disrespect you if you take a wrong decision. If a person does not love you as much as you love them, they would vent out their anger on you and give you fewer chances to explain yourself. Example: How Jacob loved Bella and supported her even when he thought she took some wrong decisions such as giving birth to Edward’s baby.

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#6. Infidelity Has No Reason To Exist

You would never have to suffer infidelity ever again in life. You can easily put your insecurity woes aside and live your life merrily. The person who loves you a lot will make sure that your interests are given more importance than theirs. S/he will love you till the very end. What else do you need in life? We can surely attain solace on getting such a person in our lives who promises to love us unconditionally.

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#7. No Trust Issues

There won’t be any trust issues with the person who loves you. They will always be loyal to you no matter what because their love for you will be humungous. You mean everything to them and your one smile could bring them happiness. They would not give up on you easily even if it’s a rough situation. But if you are with somebody whom you love and the other person doesn’t love you back then you will face incessant issues which will be hard to curb.

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#8.  No Compromises

If you get married to somebody who loves you then there won’t be any compromises to make since they will show respect towards your likes and dislikes. They will try their level best to know you properly and possibly a person who doesn’t love you won’t be able to do that. You might feel the need to break your marriage with the person who doesn’t love you if he does not even try to understand the compromises you made for him or he himself doesn’t try to adjust. But with the person you love, there will be romance and friendship both prevailing in the relationship as you both would have known each other for years or months. You won’t run from yourself because you won’t have any regrets about choosing the wrong person. Life will be easy and fun.

#9. Reason Isn’t Required