Break-up changes person a lot

The relationship has always been the beautiful feeling in this world. People tend to fall for each other, love each other, care for each other and so on. Love is something which can't be explained in words either be shown. A man and a woman make promises together to be with one another throughout their lives. They are involved with each other so much that they can do anything to be together. Love makes a person blind and that is a simple truth.

If love, on one side is like heaven for people then break ups are like hell on the other side. Loving someone is creating a bond with someone and promising to be together forever. What happens when this bond breaks for no matter what reason? Loving someone is an easy task but maintaining that relationship is not a cup of tea. It takes years to understand a person. The relationship is a bond of two people and not one. If one person is missing this connection could not be made. It really hurts when this beautiful bond is about to end or is on edge of ending.

Break ups are really heartbreaking leading to a complete change in a person. It’s not at all normal for a person to easily forget someone who was his or her’s everything. Break ups not only affect a person mentally but also physically. People who love someone by their heart are the ones who can’t be normal at all after break up. Whether it be the girl or the boy pain is equal on both sides. a girl cries all night, remembers his lover entire day, waits for his messages or calls, pretends to be okay in front of her parents and so on. There are many things similar between a girl and a boy after the breakup. It’s not about the girl or a boy it’s about the pain, the situations which people have to go through after their breaking up with someone whom they love a lot.

Break up is simply not easy. It takes the time to forget someone. The memories, the time spent together, the promises all these can’t be just forgotten. Break ups lead to pain, hurt. It’s like the end of the world. People are not able to focus on their lives, their career. They are completely disheartened and all negativity surrounds them. People stop eating food, going out, talking to others etc. and sit in just one corner of their house regretting their loss. The importance of losing something valuable can be learned by those people who has broken up with their loved ones.

After breaking up a person goes into complete change. Mentally they open their gateways for depression. They change their way of talking to others. Some people get over to complete makeover. Some people are happy in fact that they are free and can enjoy their lives as they want to. Depends on nature and thinking of a person, everyone has their own reasons and changes for and after break up. But in my views, nothing is disheartening than breaking up with someone. It is a very difficult and hard situation for a person who is into it and it's advisable to make that person happy and be supportive to him or her rather than pointing out mistakes. Break up is also the reason for many suicide cases in India. Avoid the changes and just live your life happily without any tensions because changes are good but if they lead you to your bad side and affects your health, then it’s better to stay away from them.