It can be a very difficult situation if you decide to get into a relationship with someone who is not over his ex. If you are in a relationship with a guy who is still thinking about his ex-girlfriend, you can never have a fulfilling relationship with him. You should suggest the guy to get closure from his past relationship. Until and unless he gets closure, he will think about his ex and ruin his present relationship.
Here are some reasons why it is not a good idea to get into a relationship with someone who is not over their ex -
1. He Will Keep Thinking About Her Memories Instead Of Making New Memories With You
If he is not over his ex, he will keep thinking about her memories in his leisure. That will definitely affect your relationship.
2. He Will Compare You Every Minute To His Ex
He might not do it intentionally, but if he is not over his ex, he will compare each and every thing about you to his ex, starting from looks to habits.
3. You Will Also Compare Yourself Unintentionally To His Ex
If your partner is not over his ex, you will find yourself comparing and judging. It will take away your peace and make you feel insecure.
Therefore, if you want a fulfilling relationship, do not be with someone who misses his ex every now and then.
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I guess not. This kind of relation where your partner is not over his/her ex yet will create a difficult situation for you and for your partner as well. This relation will not be build upon trust and will have weak foundation which leads to short term relation.
No, being his/her good friend then getting into a relationship with someone who is not over their ex will be a better option according to me...