I had been in a relationship for 1 and a half year. My ex is a mature, responsible and loving man, he is also very trustworthy. And also, he spend money for me. His weaknesses are that he likes to say harsh words when he is mad, he's not ambitious in working and whenever we fight and i cried in front of him, he wouldnt bother to calm me down or even talk to me.
He broke up with me because thought i was flirting with a new guy. After i convince him that we were only friend, we got back together. But since then i felt like he didnt trust me anymore, he was being so suspectful. That's why i broke up for the second time with him, feeling that if a relationship has no more trust, it wont workout.
Now there is a new guy. He is a man with a good future and he wants to have a serious relationship with me.He treats me very good, he is very patients towards me, which i couldnt find in my ex. But he is a very possesive, obsessive and jealousy person which is such a turnoff for me, he is also stingy. He keeps ensure me to choose him and he promise if i choose him, he wouldn't disappoint me. But now i don't think i love him, or maybe one day i will.
I still love my ex, and i know he loves me too. He wants to get back with me, but i have met this new guy. I don't know which one i should choose.