10 Reasons Why You Should Date An Older Man

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10 Reasons Why You Should Date An Older Man

They say love is blind. Regardless of the stereotypical world that we live in, the actual meaning of love knows no boundaries. No one ever said that age is crucial to fall in love with someone.

You might be dating someone younger to you or of your age, and that is fine as long as you’re happy and content with your relationship. However, if you ask us, we’ll tell you that if you want to be with someone who will help you your way, is mature, cares for you or if you only want a Leon for the Mathilda in you, then go for a guy who is older than you.

There are obviously many advantages of dating older men, and we try and bring to you ten reasons why you should date older men. Take a look:

#1. He Will Never Get Tired Of Pampering You

We are not talking about gifts. He’ll pamper you like you're a little kid and will take care of all your needs. In fact, he’ll ask you what you want to do instead of planning things on his own. Now, come on, who does that?


#2. Older Guys Are Usually Old-School

He’ll write you a letter, open the door for you, send you flowers and do much more. Sometimes, he will surprise you in ways you can’t imagine. This is because he’s in love with the very idea of romance.



#3. He Will Always Be Patient With You

One of the best things about dating an older guy is that this boy will be up for listening to your rants, whether they make sense or not. He won’t laugh at you, but instead politely laugh at your stupidity. And that’s allowed.



#4. There Will Probably Be No One Else Who Understands You Better

Remember that he was once of your age. So, he probably knows what you’re going through and will always try to help you out of that situation. Their ability to be a support system is a great reason you should date older men.



#5. He Is Not Confused With His Life

If you're not friends with benefits type, then perhaps dating an older guy would be the best thing you can do. One of the major advantages of dating older men is that they are stable and know what they’re doing with their life. So, if he’s with you, he’s sure about you.


#6. He Will Tell You About Unusual Things And Places

As they say that having real and meaningful conversations are the backbone of any relationship. So ladies! Conversations are going to get better. He’s seen more and he knows better than you, so just allow him to express himself.



#7.He Is Both Appreciative And Critical Of You

He wants to hear you talk. He’s glad that you are focused and he will let you know what he likes or dislikes about your personality. At the same time, he won’t shy away from telling you when you are immature. He sounds like a complete package, right?



#8. He Is Great In Bed

Let’s just say he knows his stuff. *wink*



#9. He Is Going To Make You Feel More Desired

We know that doesn’t happen too often. You are going to be his inspiration, his muse and the reason he feels alive. The fact that he’s with you says that he’s a little child at heart himself. So brace yourself, because he wants you and he’ll make sure you know that.



#10. You Could Just Experience Plain Old Satisfaction

And to end the discussion once and for all, dating an older man reaps benefits that have been proven scientifically! Yes, a study published in the 2008 Journal Psychology of Women Quarterly argues that women who were a decade or younger than their partners were more satisfied and committed to their relationships than their female counterparts who were in a relationship with someone closer to their age.


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Opinions (2)
Older Man, You'll Feel Forever Hot

The article brilliantly puts every reason why one should atleast entertain the thought of dating an older men. You will get a more stable and old school relationship missing in todays time

Guy Of Same Age, You Can Relate Well To Things

It's perhaps all about preference and finding the closure. You might feel good with anyone and age doesn't really matter. It all depends upon the kind of person you are with right now.

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