Being the sexy girlfriend for your man is not only about looking attractive so that he drools over you every time he sees you but learning what all constitutes sexiness and can add to your appeal. It can be very difficult to please your partner in a relationship when both of you are not saying what you want your partner to do directly and at the same time showing resistance to their guesswork. All of us can be tricky and irrational like this when we want something more than what reality offers and pin this task on our partner to provide us with the same.
This phase of not acknowledging reason and understanding passes away quickly when your partner sees that what both of you share and have is exciting and helps you be your best self. It could be that sexiness is not the dominant factor of your personality. However, even if you are born with it, you will be surprised to know that you can bring it almost at will like the ones who are naturally sexy.
It is very important that you learn about the tastes of your partner. Men can sweet talk their way out of answering when asked directly what their tastes are but their real reactions never lie. Once you pick up on his tastes, it won’t take you much to please him as you have always wielded power over how you present yourself.
Self-esteem is very attractive and is one of the key elements in sexiness. One must never police their mind to an extent where every part of their soul is colored in woe and despair and they are forever in search of some anesthesia that helps them deal with the trouble called life. When we form the mindset that we are here to endure and not enjoy, positivity disappears so fast from our life we can barely see it going. Being self-confident and cheerful has a lot to do with accepting what we are and choosing a philosophy we live by in which we are looking out for ourselves and not physically hurting others.
The key to really being the sexy girlfriend for your man is maintaining eye contact more often. Eye contact is the best form of nonverbal communication as it arouses you and makes you feel intense when that gaze draws the full potency of your being from your eyes. Commanding the attention of your partner in a room full of people makes them feel important and acknowledge you like the sexy girlfriend you are being.
One of the ways to rub your partner the wrong way is to be right all the time and even though men today are not offended when women know something they don’t mean decades ago frowned upon the same. Sometimes keeping quiet about what you know and what your partner doesn’t can go a long way in them not feeling less of man as there are only two things they derive pride from- the first is their sexual power and the second is how they use knowledge to make money. Smart women love smart men more than smart men love smart women is a quote that tells us that the key to being a sexy girlfriend for your man.
Whenever you enter into a room, you must bring with you a scent that is strong and luxurious. Being a woman, you would know how aroused you feel when a man smells good, the same is felt by men when you smell good. It gives them a strong sense of arousal and helps them admire you for your sexiness and style.
Monitoring the mood of your partner is all about knowing when he is tired and when he is expecting some rub a dub. Sometimes it happens that you misread their mood and your sexiness backfires as they just get frustrated over you initiating it at the time when he just wants to go to sleep. Although sex is a stress reliever, it can further agitate a bad-tempered man when he is too tired to perform. The sexiness which you have infused in your character and can command at will is best used after monitoring your partner’s mood and giving him alone time when the chances of snapping at sexiness are high and showing him the sexy you.
The dirty talk that makes him reunite with his sex ego is one of the easiest ways to let your partner know and never forget that you are sexy. It will heighten the intensity of foreplay and actually get you the ravenous man you want in bed with you.
Nobody can predict mood although many have tried and even made entries into their little books in order to get the best out of both happiness and sadness yet the response cannot be the right response all the time as we know caprices can really make one’s life impossible. Keep your legs shaved and don’t skip baths so that whenever he comes in and undresses you, you are ready to rock his world whenever he pounces on you.
You can start with light flirty texts and then move on to more raunchy ones as you sext and tell him what he is missing when he is at work. You can click photos from angles that present your body in a new light and discourage your man from thinking that he has lost desire in you. Legendary singer Cher said that husbands are like fires they go out when they are left unattended, you don’t have to become all paranoid when we say this just cater to them via sexting when they are away from you for a few minutes so that their lust for you refreshes.
No, we are not asking you dress skimpily or something that invites vulgarity instead of arousing your partner. It could be that you do an erotic dance step to floor your partner when he comes from work or has stopped working on his laptop as he is at the end of his wits. If you move your hips while walking or give him a glimpse of your cleavage as you place yourself near his legs and slowly move up to his chest it will make him horny and you irresistible.
Skinny girls cannot make a man as mad as girls who have some weight on them can as men with sexual prowess are usually the ones who have a big appetite. Eating is sexy as men learn quickly that girls who don’t eat a lot feel tired more than often and can spoil their anticipation by calling off the night early.
The reason men like women who can eat is that those women will have energy and strength to properly work out and make your partner feel that he is not the only one who is constantly hounding himself for sex. A partner who workout out together become better aware of their partner’s body and know how much they can endure and what lies out of their reach.
Learning to be shy and bashful is one of the first and foremost steps in being feminine. It can be hard for a lot of women as they have grown outspoken and unabashed about their sexuality and often do the old guy things that you were used to fulfilling a need and are a disposable person for me. One of the most obsessed over and admired thing about women is their shyness which is well known for seduction. You don’t have to be society’s definition but just a girl with poise and grace who loves loud celebrations as much as reserved moments in which the lips fall silent, and the eyes stare into your lover’s.
If you are feeling underappreciated and are freaking out that your husband is not as interested in you as he was before because your sex life has taken a hit. Go out and take part in an activity which helps you vent your ire instead of telling it to your partner who is already preoccupied with something. Frustrated women are never sexy, and it is nothing else but your imagination that is insecure. All relationships go through up and downs as our hormones sometimes race and sometimes just laze around so don’t make a mountain out of a molehill if you are experiencing dry days as passion will out and show it itself again.
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I will start with this paragraph I just read ‘There is a reason we keep changing from time to time and that reason is that we suck at maintaining a similar state of mind for a long time so your partner or husband may be equally prone to that incoming slip of excitement that results in loss of enthusiasm as much as you’. I would not have agreed with this a year ago as I had not experienced it till then but right now I couldn’t agree more as my husband stopped finding me sexy and even told me that some of my habits are so gross that the overall attraction in my personality and character he admired has taken a hit. I got all defensive at the start saying that he is wrong and he doesn’t understand me, he is acting this way because now there is no mystery to me and I can also act the same way as there is no mystery to him. Maybe this was the problem that we were not having any new experiences and were edging closer to the maxim that you only reap joy out of things once and cannot reap the same joy over and over again. Clearly we had hit a roadblock that was testing our resolve to be with each other and he had taken the first step on numerous previous occasions but was somehow reluctant to take it now. I thought a lot about it and feared that we were going to become just like the couple in our society who were married for 10 years and then divorced. I needed some fast and quick changes and my fear made me so paranoid that I suggested an open marriage to my husband where he and I both can get some excitement back into our individual lives as I though he wanted it when he threatened me that he will start going out with his colleague as he was not getting the affection he needs to maintain the good in his heart. This made him angrier than ever as he said I don’t want to spend time with you at all because I despise you and find you petulant to the point where he stormed out of the room. I soon realized that he was gaining weight and that he did not like the food that was prepared at home so I learned a few new recipes and greeted him with new combinations of clothes which he was pleased to see. Other than that I worked out more often and did not leave dishes by the bed which he got really pissed about, he even told me to put no clothes on when he comes from work and that was when I sex-ted him regularly with snaps that he got all horny over. I made sure that we went out at least once a week so that our surroundings don’t catch up with us and activate our crank and tried a lot of scents on till he got mesmerized with one that he loved more than others.