Falling in love with a person is absolutely sane. However, the problem arises when your love takes another tangent and translates into an obsession. That's when you get friend zoned!
But, why do people get friend zoned after all? While the answer to that range from a plethora of reasons, there are three primary reasons - your thinking and behavior, you 'being' unattractive (not that you are unattractive) and the things that you are doing wrong- that causes one to fall in the league of those who are friend zoned.
So how can you get away from getting friend zoned? Follow these key steps and save yourself from the unnecessary tag:
#1. Learn To Accept The Reality
If you have been friend zoned, learn to accept the reality. Don't beat around the bush and portray like the person you love yet doesn't know how much you love them and they rather took an impulsive decision to friend zone you. That's not how it works! You need to be true to yourself before we proceed further.
#2. Leave Your Obsession Behind
Once you have accepted the reality, tackle your obsession for your love. Nobody wants to be with someone who obsesses over them. It kills their space and charm. Hence, do not obsess over her and avoid flushing her with unwanted compliments and praises.
#3. Avoid Those Incessant Texts
You need to draw a line when it comes to messaging the person you love. No matter how many times your heart wishes to speak to the one, you fancy, learn to control it. People usually get irritated with the constant texts and calls and try to put an end to it by friend zoning. Hence, if you do not want to get friend zoned, now is the time to stop troubling your love with the 'n' number of calls and messages.
#4. Add A Touch Of Mystery To Your Personality
Don't be an open book whose pages are read by all! Instead, add a sense of mystery to your personality and let your love interest unravel the mystery. This exciting aspect of your personality will develop their interest in you and save you from the horrors of getting friend zoned.
#5. Give Them The Cold Shoulder
If you want them to look up to you for support, you must learn to give the person of your dream the cold shoulder once in a while. This will make them learn to value you as an individual and not take you for granted. However, remember to not go overboard with the emotion and control the coldness to a certain degree.
#6. Learn To Say 'No'
In an attempt to be liked by the person we fancy, we often get carried away and forget to practice the word ' No.' This gives a wrong impression to the other person who begins to take you for granted. Thus, learn to say no. It's okay if the answer offends them. They will appreciate you for your honesty and clarity in verse.
#7. 'Become' Attractive
In order to 'become' attractive, you need to learn not 'being' unattractive. It may sound confusing but that's not the case. You are not an unattractive person. However, the things you do to please the person you love make you act unattractive. Thus, abandon your disappointing flirting skills and add a credit to your personality to 'become' attractive for the other. This will make them desire you.
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